How to Get a Virgo Man Turned on For You

Last Updated on December 15, 2021

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Sometimes it can be a difficult job to turn on a Virgo man to even notice you, let alone raise his passion so that he wants a relationship. The charismatic guy seems to be in a world of his own, reserved and slightly detached.

This article explains how to turn on a Virgo man and what you need to do to get his attention, but more importantly how to keep him turned on and always interested in you.

The male born under the zodiac sign of Virgo can be slow to pick up on the signs a woman is interested in him, and if he does, can sometimes misread the signals that she wants him to take things further.

He can be a gentle soul so if you push him or come on too strong he could pull back and disappear into his shell.

When in a relationship a Virgo man can also get sidetracked by his fascination to understand everything that piques his interest. If you want to turn him on to pay you more attention or you want to turn him on in the bedroom there is one thing you need to do first.

You just need to find a way of becoming his priority.

By becoming his priority he will always put your wishes first which will enable you to find happiness with one of the most sought-after males of the zodiac.

How to Make Yourself a Virgo Man’s Priority

A Virgo man has a picture in his mind of how he sees himself in the world and how he feels he should treat a woman he wants to spend his life with.

If you have been more forward than he is comfortable with or if in a relationship too demanding, his natural instinct is to pull back.

The problem does not lay with how a Virgo guy sees a woman but more so with how much a woman is prepared to understand him.

Any woman who wants to know how to get a Virgo man excited about her and assure her of a secure a long-lasting relationship with him needs to understand some important facts. This video here explains his greatest need and desires in a relationship.

How To Turn On a Virgo Man To Desire You?

couple kissing with sun behind themLearning these tips to make a Virgo man focus on you and only you can be fun! Over the centuries, Astrologers have studied the movements of the planets in relation to the moment a person is born.

This has led to the established theory that zodiac signs have a direct bearing on a person’s traits and characteristics.

Therefore it follows that if we understand the make-up of a person we are attracted to we can possibly control the outcome.

Understanding The Makeup of a Virgo Man

A very well-known saying should be remembered by anyone looking for love. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So we should always remember that attraction comes in many forms.

Some women think that they need model figures, and in some cases it’s true. The real beauty of a person lies within, so we need to look the best we can and the rest comes with interaction.

It is understanding the things that are attractive to a person that will make them be drawn to you. The man born under the sign of Virgo is one that needs help in overcoming his reserved nature.

If you have the hots for a Virgo guy you need to understand his characteristics and how he thinks in situations regarding love and relationship.

I reviewed a book recently by a devoted astrologer and relationship coach explaining everything a woman needs to know about a Virgo man.

How to get a man and make him fall in love, even if he seems aloof and disinterested. You can read my review here. I think you may be surprised how much is covered.

Virgo Man Best Match

couple kissing at breakfastA Virgo man is known to be quite analytical in his approach to life in general.

How he is seen by his friends and those around him is of the utmost importance to him.

For him to be attracted to a woman, she must show similar characteristics.

Attention to appearance is important.

Definitely not flashy, but clean smart clothing and natural well-groomed hair, and a subtle perfumed fragrance will be in top order.

A Virgo guy will also steer away from a woman who acts with course behaviors like swearing and drunkenness.

A Virgo guy is generally very conscientious as far as his work is concerned and he admires others with the same work ethic. He also takes his time in assessing people as he does not want to be taken for a fool.

This tends to make women think that he is shy but really he is just making sure before getting in too deep.

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Going from Like to Love is a Sequence of stages that need to be triggered in the super-organized mind of a Virgo Man.

If you are trying to win more affection from a Virgo man for the first time, or maybe wanting to increase his passion for you in a relationship or even to repair the damage of a breakup,

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This desire principle has been the subject of intense research by relationship expert James Bauer. He's discovered the psychological link in a man's mind which is the key to elicit strong feelings of desire, love, and incredible attraction.

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The thing to bear in mind for any woman contemplating a relationship with a Virgo guy is that he has an image in his mind of his ideal partner.

Not just how she may look but also how she thinks and reacts to different situations. This makes it tricky for any woman who has the hots for a Virgo man. But not impossible!!

If you want to understand what a Virgo man needs from a woman and implement it correctly, he will naturally fall in love with you.

Virgo Man Turn On’s

How to turn on a Virgo man is all about getting him to chase youYou can get a Virgo man to chase you once you understand how he thinks, and acts in situations regarding romance.

When you know this you will be able to play to your strengths, and allow him to win your heart.

In this article, I am going to highlight some important steps that you can implement to ensure that you can get his attention.

After that, I will explain the importance of understanding his traits and characteristics, followed by the things you need to know to keep him happy.

As I touched on above, appearance is the initial magnet in any relationship. A Virgo guy is particularly picky about how he looks and this also follows for anyone who wants to be his partner.

A real turn-off for a Virgo man is a woman who does not care about hygiene or how she looks. Now a girl does not have to go overboard, she just needs to be smart, clean, and well-groomed.

A Virgo man has a caring nature and is usually up for helping someone out with a chore or advice. This particular trait is something you can use to your advantage.

For instance, if your crush is someone in the work environment this characteristic will help to break the ice by asking for his assistance.  Choose carefully, because he is happy to help but will not appreciate being taken advantage of.

Related article: How to Make a Virgo Man Chase You

Asking a Virgo Man for Help

girl flirtingAsking his help with a double-sided photocopy print, for example, will bring out the caring side of his star sign.

However, definitely steer clear of looking clueless and needy as this will get you disregarded straight off.

Thank him for his help, as this will bolster his image of himself, and filter into the conversation how you had helped someone with an alternative problem.

This will show him you are both on the same wavelength and may tempt him to ask further questions of you.

It may even go well enough for you to ask him to sponsor you for a charity event that you are contemplating. Let him know that you are a caring person, just like him.

The main aim is to break the ice and find out a little about him and avoid any embarrassing situations later on.

Related article: Dating a Virgo man – Things you need to know

Conversation With a Virgo Man

If the conversation between you starts to flow, avoid running down other work colleagues or your boss. A Virgo guy is very conscientious and has a strong loyalty to his employer.

You need to avoid anything that may seem bias at this early stage. Try to be constructive without being confrontational.

If you feel you need to say anything just say that things are going well at work at the moment.

If you feel that he wants to talk and you are not holding him up, you could inquire about his work and what it entails.

A Virgo man is very work orientated and even talking about work is relaxing for him. Showing him you are interested in topical issues and that you can hold an interesting conversation will raise his interest in you.

Listen and be interested but above all avoid making comments which include swearing or bad language. This could put the block on things straight away.

Because the two of you are talking about work it may be difficult for you to gauge if you have made an impression on him or not. As you will find a Virgo guy is good at keeping his emotions under control.

See also: How to flirt and make eye contact

Reflection of couple kissing in womans eyeMore Virgo Turn On’s

The Virgo man is attracted by the thrill of the chase. If he feels he hasn’t worked to capture the heart of a woman he will lose interest.

Now, this is the time you need to make a decision as to whether you make the first move or walk away and hope you have done enough for him to call you.

Many women find themselves in a position of limbo.

They feel it is the right thing that a man should start by posing the question of going on a date.

But what happens if the man is on the shy side or has not read the signals he has been getting from the woman? Stalemate! and a potential loving romance never gets off the ground.

Related article: How to keep a Virgo man wanting you

Turn On a Virgo Man with Subliminal Messages

Something that has been proven to work for 100’s of women when understanding how to turn on a Virgo man is a system that uses subliminal messages that are absorbed into his subconscious mind.

I was dubious when I first heard about this program so I decided to investigate and was amazed at the positive results. The system is a series of messages that can be sent via text. This alleviates any problems of who makes the first move.

The magic though is in the wording and the subliminal effect those words have on a man’s mind, which makes them focus totally on the woman who sent the text.

This needs some explaining so I have written a separate article below explaining how it works or if you prefer you can watch this video here which explains exactly what to do to make him focus his attention totally on you.

If you are trying to attract attention or trying to repair a relationship with a Virgo guy you may well find the answer in the post below.

Related article: How to flirt with a Virgo man via text

Virgo Turn On’s in The Bedroom

man and woman in bedWith regard to sex, there is a slight misconception about ways to turn on a Virgo man and how this zodiac sign reacts in the bedroom.

Contrary to popular belief, Virgo guys don’t find sex distasteful and they are not naturally chaste.

However, a Virgo man does find it easier to abstain due to his characteristic of avoiding one-night stands.

This makes a Virgo man seem more reserved than maybe you would like but once he gets to know you WOW!

The main turn-on for a Virgo man is his partner whispering in his ear. He wants to know he has done well in pleasing you and telling him what you like fires up his sexual emotions.

However, this type of arousal does not come easily to some women possibly due to embarrassment or not really knowing what to say. If you need a little help, this video describes the delights of The Language of Desire here.

Sex for the Virgo man is not something to be taken for granted, so one-night stands are not on his agenda. Getting to know his partner is of more importance than self -gratification which in turn will lead to a more loving relationship.

Virgo males tend to want perfection in sex as is their craving for everything else in life. Finding a woman who is prepared to learn how to bring this desire out in her man will be at the forefront of his thoughts.

Related article: How to drive a Virgo man wild in bed – The skills you need

Virgo Man Traits and Characteristics

Learning how to turn on a Virgo man will give you an insight into his character. He has a specific outlook on life with a focus on hard work, honesty, and good family life.

Read my review of Virgo Man Secrets which includes Sextrology to find out all you need to know about how he reacts to love in a relationship.

A Virgo man likes everything in its place and views cleanliness next to godliness. Some star signs like Aries and Aquarius can be more challenging. However, compromise on his characteristics will see love come shining through.

Generally a reliable, solid male star sign. This union would be very hard to beat in a relationship once allowance is made for each other’s strengths and weaknesses.

Final Thoughts

Although star signs generally have specific characteristics some signs are more compatible with each other. This, however, should not stop any particular two signs from being happy together.

If you are needing to know how to get a Virgo man to want you for the first time or how to get him back after a breakup, Text Psychology may be the answer.

However, if you are feeling your Virgo crush is pulling away and losing interest in you, it might be of interest to understand more about His Secret Obsession in a short video here.

The real secret of long-term contentment is getting to understand the characteristics of another person and making allowances for them.

If you want to know how to make a Virgo man chase you and want to be with you, understand the tips in this article.

Picture of Charlene smilingI hope you found this article to help in understanding more about a Virgo guy. There are lots more articles involving situations with this star sign on my website

Why not bookmark my site for future reference? You can also message me in the comments if you need further advice. I hope you find love and happiness with your Virgo guy.

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