How To Make A Virgo Guy Want You – Only You
The secrets of how to make a Virgo guy want you lay in the understanding a woman has about his hidden desires.
Whether you have been together 2 years or just getting started in a relationship the initial sexual chemistry can sometimes start to fade which affects the relationship.
Of course, it is not just the sexual chemistry that we need to think about. Is he losing interest for another reason?
Has he seemed more distant recently and seemingly unconcerned about you?
I received a letter recently which triggered me to write this post as I know it is a situation that is affecting a lot of people out there.
I asked the writer’s permission to print her letter. She was only too happy when I told her how many women I think her story would help.
How To Make a Virgo Guy Want You
Here are the letters and my response.
Hi Charlene! Would you please give me your advice regarding a situation that I find myself in?
We have been together now for over a year and my heart literally races when we are together or I know I will be seeing him soon. I just don’t think he is having the same feeling as me.
I feel we have a good relationship and I love my Virgo guy dearly. However, I feel the excitement and passion are disappearing from our relationship.
Feelings have crept in making me think that my guy is losing interest in me. He has a good job and we have no money worries but he seems distant and withdrawn whenever I try to discuss the situation.
I really want to re-create the sensational excitement that we felt in the early days of courtship. I am so worried that if I don’t do something soon he will leave me.
How do you keep the sexual relationship sparking as we move forward with our lives?
Thanks for your time!
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Dear………… Thank you for your letter
We all have to accept that when we are in a relationship we gradually over time get to know more about our partners.
The novelty of exploring and finding out about each other wears off and life tends to fall into a pattern of routine.
Each of us is affected by our changing hormones. Other biological processes have an effect on our libidos as we get older.
Along with the familiarity of being together, we automatically develop situations based on our partner’s preferences.
This familiarity and routine can result in when making love together it becomes more and more predictable. This, in turn, dims the excitement and starts to dull the sparks of passion that were originally there.
I really respect you for seeking help and facing this situation. Doing nothing may lead to boredom and possibly an eventual split between the two of you.
The best advice I can give you is to think of changes to routine. Changes that can reintroduce that spark back into the relationship. Changes that you are clearly craving and wishing to preserve.
The article below will give you some pointers on how to understand bringing more sexual chemistry into the relationship. There are also links within the article that take you to other helpful pages.
If you feel I have not covered your query please contact me via comments on my website. Opportunities have a habit of slipping through our fingers if we don’t do something about it. I am always happy to help if I can. Charlene
The rest of this article explains why the lack of interest can occur, but you may find it worthwhile listening to a short video by a relationship expert, who has studied the Virgo male characteristics.
James Bauer is a leading expert in relationship problems and has discovered a characteristic in men which is sometimes taken for granted by a woman. It relates to the male’s need to be seen as a hero in the eyes of the woman he loves.
In today’s modern world, women have become much more independent and can unconsciously be undermining a man’s inner concept of how he sees himself in the world.
It is really important that you make your guy feel he is the most important thing in your life, but without changing yourself. After all, it was you he fell in love with originally so any changes you make need to be measured and very subtle.
Take a listen to this short video in which James explains in more depth the yearning that your guy may well be feeling. You may well discover this is all you need to re-create the loving relationship that you are dreaming of.
Virgo Guy In Love
Bring back the spark to your relationship
Here are a few ideas that you can use to bring the excitement roaring back!
The extra zing can be created for you both by releasing an extra dose of dopamine to your brains. This occurs when change is introduced to a routine situation.
This pleasure chemical that is stimulated by sexual thoughts needs to be activated, and this can easily be done with the help of Language of Desire Here.
This is a program developed by sexual relationship expert Felicity Keith who explains when and how to whisper carefully chosen words that will ignite your guy’s passion for you.
Adding some unexpected ideas to your sexual frolicking can sometimes be difficult for some women and Felicity in The Language of Desire shows you the techniques that work without you feeling any embarrassment.
Also, simple things to try for instance would be a different time of day or even a room other than the bedroom at night. Maybe surprise him by jumping in the shower with him for an early morning quickie?
Or the kitchen, if the time is right. An unexpected surprise is needed, which may light up his appetite for not only food!
Roleplay is another idea that could be considered. Getting into ‘character’ can be exciting!
Even dressing up and donning a wig may create an illicit thrill. As long as it is kept as fun without the emphasis being lost on you as a person.
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Chemistry in a man’s brain
I’m sure, you like me may initially think that some of these ideas sound a bit silly.
However, I know from talking to hundreds of women, how changes like these have added a massively improving ingredient to their relationship.
Further evidence of this can be found in a recently launched program called The Language of Desire,
This explains in a step-by-step format how our sex lives are controlled by our brain chemistry.
The program is made up of over thirty differing techniques that guarantee to add a new sparkle and spice up your sex life.
Other women I have referred the program to have given rave reviews (I feel certain that their men would also *wink, wink*)
I hope the above has given you a few pointers. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to reply to your letter in a way that I know will help a lot of women who may be too shy to ask for advice.
Find some quiet time and check out The Language of Desire. I’m sure you will be surprised and relieved at how easy it is to spark up your relationship. I’m sure this will go a long way to make your man want you, and only you.
See also: Virgo man erogenous zones
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