How to Make a Virgo Man Want You Back After a Breakup

A Virgo man is always very practical and logical. What’s more, he has very strong convictions, is very analytical, and more often than not spends his time thinking.

Before a Virgo man breaks up with you, he is likely to think hard about it. Before making his final decision he would indeed have thought things through.

Reasons Why a Virgo Man May Want to Breakup

It would be imperative that I touch on some of the reasons why a relationship with a Virgo man is likely to end. For starters, Virgo men love nit-picking over small details and they can be very obsessed with details.

Secondly, they are very paranoid about their health and like to operate in clean environments. Well, this may be the reason you may have broken up with them. You couldn’t stand such qualities and many others that a Virgo man is renowned for.

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A Virgo man may have broken up with you because you were unwilling or not able to live up to his expectations.

Perhaps he broke up with you because of poor work ethics. Could this be due to your inability to accommodate his carefully ordered way of doing things or routine?

In addition, the Virgo man could have broken up with you because he saw you as a lazy woman more so because the Virgo man is very hard working.

It all stems from a lack of understanding

There could be so many reasons why you have broken up, but all stem from lack of understanding. A Virgo guy is very private with his feelings and it will take a clever woman to get him to open up.

He is driven by a need to be proved right, so it is difficult sometimes to grip the real reasons for the split. To get him to want you back, you need to understand why he is so rigid in his thought patterns.

This article cannot explain everything, but there are simple ways of changing his thinking, which is explained in a book I reviewed recently.

It has been written by a lady who is recognized as an expert in relationships with a Virgo man. It is called  Virgo Man Secrets. This is an easy to read in-depth assessment of his characteristics. It could well contain the key to your reconciliation.

Tips for Making a Virgo Man Want You Back After a Breakup

In this article, you are going to learn tips on how you can make your Virgo ex come back to you after a breakup.

Give him space

After a breakup with a Virgo guy, it is advisable to give him some space. With that in mind, it is important that you avoid any form of communication, hopefully, so he realizes what he has lost.

In other words, you should avoid doing things that will make you appear desperate such as calling him, texting him or pestering him.

On the other hand, if your ex Virgo man texts or calls you, control the temptation to answer immediately. Let him realize that you are an independent woman who can stand on her own feet.

Make yourself unavailable.

The idea is to make yourself unavailable. In addition, whenever you reply to his texts, always ensure that you are not giving him too much information. In other words, your texts should be brief and rather uninformative.

Creating that space between the two of you will make him go crazy. If the two of you are meant to be he will eventually realize that he made a mistake by letting you go. This might make him come running back to you.

Creating space also allows your ex Virgo man to think deeply about what is going on between the two of you.

You both may have been taking each other for granted and need a second chance to put some zing back into the relationship. The trouble is he may keep taking you for granted if you chase him. You need to find a way of staying in contact and making him want you back.

There is one thing that a lot of women have had great success with, and that is subliminal text messaging. These expertly worded messages register directly with his subconscious mind to have him constantly thinking of you.

Sounds way out, but has had great results. See what you think by listening to this short video entitled Text Chemistry. This may be the one idea that will get you back together, forever!

Keep your conversations logical

If you happen to have any conversations with your ex Virgo man about your breakup, be sure to speak logically.

As you do so, it is important that you avoid crying and screaming as being emotional will only push your Virgo ex even further away.

Speaking logically enables you to give your ex Virgo crush practical reasons on why you should work things out. It also gives him something to obsess about while away from you.

See also: How to win a Virgo man back – And keep him

Stay Calm! And do not be in a Rush

During the breakup period, try to remember that a Virgo man always feels incompatible with a woman who appears like she is in a rush. It is also important to note that a Virgo man is very cautious and likes to do things at his own pace.

Therefore, always ensure that you remain calm. Remaining calm means that you avoid arguing with him. If it is his decision to break up with you because arguing will do more harm than good.

Not rushing things may make your ex Virgo crush feel comfortable around you. He will be tempted to re-kindle the flames of desire. This, in turn, might end up blossoming into a long-lasting relationship once again.

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Make him feel jealous about being away from you

To make your ex Virgo man jealous, you need to show him that you can be happy without him.

You could do this by doing what you like and opening up doors for new opportunities. Ensure that you pamper yourself until you feel great about who you are as a person.

This is a crucial step especially if your boyfriend had made you feel worthless as a person.

You can rest assured that redefining your life and finding new meaning in your life would definitely make your ex Virgo man jealous.

Your ex-boyfriend will actually be surprised that you are going places without him, and he might want to pursue you once again.

Parting words

If you have broken up with a Virgo man, it is important that you understand that he is likely to give you a second or third chance. He tends to be able to deal with disappointments if he knows exactly what has caused them.

To really understand how he thinks, you may like to check out Virgo Man Secrets here, A study by an astrology and relationship expert.

However, once a Virgo man makes his final decision about ending the relationship once and for all, he will seldom look back. This is why it is worth playing it cool to try to judge his reactions.

An initial break is not necessarily a final break.  For a Virgo man, when a relationship is over, it is indeed over. He will only want to re-kindle the relationship if he has understood what went wrong.