Will Virgo Man Miss You More If You Ignore Him?
Getting a Virgo guy to chase you
The Virgo guy that you have always had a crush on has finally started to notice you. He has asked you out and you are keen that this will develop into a long-term relationship.
You have butterflies in your stomach every time you meet, but you are wary of coming on too strong in case you scare him away.
This is a normal reaction but learning more about a Virgo man will guarantee you a happy future together. Click here if you want to discover Virgo man’s secret obsession.
Be cool! Allow him space to miss you
Never try to put pressure on your Virgo crush because you will only drive him away. A strong character in this star sign is having a degree of personal space. This does not necessarily mean he is not interested in you, but the relationship needs to develop before he reduces his time on his other interests.
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It is important to let him see that you are independent and also have a life with other friends and things that interest you. It is all about establishing a trust between you and by giving him space and not appearing needy will enhance his respect for you.
Respect needs to be a two-way thing though, and he needs to understand from the off that your stance on giving him space should not be abused. An independent lady is not to be taken for granted and always at his beck and call.
Make yourself alluring!
Apart from mixing with your own friends show him your independence by showing him you are self-sufficient. He will be impressed if you earn your own money and know how to control your spending.
It is in a Virgo man’s nature to look after his partner, but he will get more pleasure in working through things together. A needy woman is a real drag and he will soon get fed up if being continuously asked to help out with the same problems or situations.
A Virgo man does everything to avoid pressure, so he will find a woman who is independent a pleasant fit to his life. When you meet it is important to let him know that you have been mixing with family or friends, and following up on your hobbies.
Keep him interested by text
Allow your Virgo crush to do the chasing, he likes nothing better. If it is done in the right way! First off, wish him a wonderful day but then leave it and wait for his reply. He may well be busy and will not like being interrupted by endless trivial messages.
It is ok to send a message first thing in the morning, along with the lines of ‘Hope you have a nice day’ but only send a follow up if he responds.
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If you have already started dating your Virgo crush, you may want to include a photo of yourself with a text message. A suggestive pose will get his heart racing, but it needs to be sexy and definitely trashy.
A Virgo male will want to feel that he is setting the pace of a relationship, so if you decide to text him a sexy comment, don’t make it too strong until you have had his reaction. He really does not like vulgar, but saucy jokes can give you an impression of how much of a prude he may be.
Any messages that you send should be open-ended allowing him to use his imagination when he responds. Learning which texts to send will make him feel that he is in charge of the situation and will fit well with his characteristics.
When to ignore a Virgo man
Trying to force a Virgo guy to do anything that he does not want to is almost impossible. They are generally stubborn and need to be encouraged if you want him to follow a certain path. Sometimes it is important not to be accessible or available every time he calls.
It is not a question of ignoring him completely as this will make him feel you are not interested in him. It is, however, important to remember that he likes to take the lead. Let him decide how the relationship takes shape, but you should try to create situations that will have you on his mind.
Sometimes when he is busy it may appear that he has lost interest in you. But if you are always in his thoughts you can work the relationship around to your way. Click this link to discover the workings of a Virgo man’s mind.
I hope you have found the above tips helpful in allowing your Virgo guy to miss you and want you in a way that blends with his natural character.
I hope you draw strength from the universe and find long-term happiness with your Virgo man.