I think I am losing my Virgo man – What should I do?
Even if you have been dating for a period of time you may notice that your Virgo guy withdraws within himself and seems to ‘switch off’.
This may cause you to think you are losing your Virgo man but is not necessarily a cause for concern. It is a well-recognized trait in a Virgo male that he sometimes just needs his own space.
A guy born under this star sign has a tendency to be reserved until he feels he knows a woman well. This can be disconcerting for a woman who is deeply attracted to a Virgo man with his charming character and easy-going manner.
A relationship with a Virgo guy can have its ups and downs. A date that has been exciting and filled with promise can be followed by one with slight tensions and long pauses in conversation. This is all part of the process of him finding out about you.
Relationship expert James Bauer has developed a unique method that has helped lots of women focus a Virgo man’s attention back totally on them.
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If a Virgo man is suddenly distant
A Virgo man is known to have the characteristic to be very conscientious in everything that he is involved with. He tends to have a clear view of how he wants his life to proceed as far as his job and income will permit.
If this view is upset regarding problems at work, for instance, it will dwell on his mind and cause him to lose focus on everything else. Challenging him with remarks that he is paying you less attention to you will only drive him deeper into his shell and possibly cause a break-up.
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Getting a Virgo man to talk about feelings
When a Virgo man draws away or is being reserved with his attention, it must not be immediately thought that he is not interested in you. Whether it be getting his attention or getting him to focus back on you the intelligent Virgo will have lots of other thoughts on his mind from time to time.
I don’t want to offend anyone and be accused of sexism but my view is that a man’s brain tends to be more controlled by logic and a woman’s more from emotion.
When dealing with the complex characteristics of the Virgo male, a woman must not jump to the conclusion that a guy has lost interest in her. He could well have other things on his mind that he feels need priority.
However, she will need to tread carefully to find a way of getting him to be comfortable in discussing his feelings. A Virgo guy is one that hates to be chased.
He tends to take his own sweet time in making decisions. He will also be unable to talk through his problems until he has had time to analyze them himself.
See also: Effective ways to love a Virgo man
How to keep a Virgo man interested in you
To make yourself appealing to a Virgo guy you must understand that it is not just a physical attraction that turns him on.
A Virgo guy, like most men, is interested in a female’s looks initially but this particular star sign is more interested in a woman’s inner beauty.
Don’t get me wrong, a Virgo man is very particular that his woman looks after herself and is not slovenly or flashy. He would be concerned to be seen by his friends with a woman who did not care about her hygiene or looks.
A major plus for a Virgo man is a woman who has lots of interests and can hold a conversation on topical issues. Now don’t get paranoid about this! You don’t need a university education just keep up with topical news reports on current affairs.
See also: How to flirt with a Virgo man via text
A subtle approach to get his attention
As I said above there could be lots of reasons why a Virgo guy is suddenly distant. To make sure you don’t do anything to make matters worse you need to find out the reason he is acting this way.
The way to do this is to get him thinking of you so that he will contact you. Once he comes out of his shell, the conversation will follow allowing you to discover why he has drawn away.
So, how to get him thinking about you without him imagining that you are chasing him???
The answer lies in a unique method that has been researched and proven to have helped 100’s of women in the same situation.
A leading relationship expert has developed a program of carefully worded phrases that can be sent by text. These subliminal messages have an effect on a man’s subconscious mind making him think constantly of the person who sent them.
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Do you compare yourself with your other girlfriends?
Are you like a lot of women who yearn to be wanted and treated well by the guy who you fancy above all others? Why is it that whenever you are out with your friends they seem to always have their man swooning over them?
A guy who goes out of their way to get them a drink, make sure they are comfortable, generally being attentive to them.
Do you consider them to be prettier than you? Do you think that maybe you should try to change yourself in some way to be more like them? This is something you should never try to do because a Virgo man is very perceptive and will discover very soon your false front.
To get the attention of a Virgo guy and keep it you need to discover the irresistible qualities that you have hidden in yourself that will make him desire you. It is simple really: You just need to learn how to make him want to be with you because of how you treat him.
The good news is that the qualities in a Virgo man are those that are looked for by most women. Once he makes up his mind that you have the qualities that he wants in a woman he will prove to be honest and reliable, as well as being romantic and a considerate lover.
Having been asked this same question several times I decided to write a separate article entitled ‘How to make yourself irresistible to a Virgo man’. In this article I hi-light some important areas to concentrate on and also take a view from a relationship expert. You can read my article here.
When a Virgo man wants you back
A Virgo man is his own guy and very much in charge of his own feelings. Provided you have not gone behind his back and abused his trust he will always be open to reconciliation.
A Virgo understands he has a complex character which sometimes makes it hard for him to climb down and admit his actions may have contributed to the break-up.
If in a fit of temper you decided to leave him he will wait for things to cool down and settle before thinking of moving on. He will be analyzing the reasons as to why you guys split and remembering the good times you shared.
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Slowly re-entering your life again
Whatever the cause of the break-up you should try to focus on the enjoyable relationship you shared at the start. A Virgo man might be slow to show his feelings but deep down he will harbor loving thoughts of your memorable moments together.
Getting your Virgo boyfriend back may take time but at the end of the day, you know this star sign has all the qualities you are looking for. Don’t hold grudges, and when you start talking try not to score points on who was right and who may have been at fault.
If you want him back find ways of putting memories of how you were back in his mind. Allow him to approach you once you have let him know that you might want to talk. Pushing too hard or chasing him will only make him drawback.
An article I wrote recently entitled ‘Tips on how to make him want you back’ may give you further ideas if you need it.
Good luck, I hope this has helped. For other articles regarding situations involving Virgo men in relationships see my website https://virgomen.net.
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