Virgo Man Mind Games – Are Virgo Men Players When Dating?
It can sometimes be confusing when dating a Virgo man to work out if he is shy and reserved or if he is waiting for more encouragement from you to move things forward.
Virgo man mind games are usually the last thing you need to worry about because a guy born under this zodiac sign usually has the characteristics of being honest and reliable.
However, it might be that you are being too forward and pressurizing him which is creating uncertainty in his mind and causing him to act the way he does.
The ruling planet of Virgo is Venus, the planet of love, and the male of this sign tends to be looking for long-term with a partner rather than playing the field.
You may be picking up hot and cold signals from him that can be quite confusing, but in the early stages of a relationship, it may be just his way of finding out more about you as a person.
You, like me, are probably finding out how frustrating it can be dating a guy who, one minute seems to be falling in love with you and the next withdrawn in his own little world and excluding you from getting too close.
Does your Virgo guy seem to be asking you a lot of questions, maybe the same one more than once, or maybe slower than normal in answering your texts?
If so, try not to jump to unfounded conclusions. I get asked a lot by women,’ Is he playing mind games or not interested in me?’ This article will give you the signs to look out for and also some solid information to decide how to move forward.
If you don’t have time to read this article completely now, you may well find the answer to all these questions in a short video by a top relationship coach How to make a Virgo man obsess over you.
Virgo Man Mind Games When Dating
Virgo men are generally not interested in playing mind games with a woman he is becoming fond of. His natural characteristic is being open and upfront and he expects the same in return from a partner.
However, sometimes this can be confusing because he does have a tendency to be seeking a lot of answers to questions swirling around his mind. This should be taken as a positive sign that he is interested in you and wants to know more.
The star sign of Virgo for a man especially tends to make them extremely analytical. They seem to have a built-in protection mechanism that they use to question things that will avoid them being hurt in the future.
A Virgo male generally has a straightforward character and hates the idea of anyone taking him for a fool. This leads to his quest to find out all he can about a person before he lets them get too close.
See also: I think I’m losing my Virgo man – What should I do?
When a Virgo Man Pulls Away
If you are feeling that your Virgo man is pulling away from you it could be down to a number of things.
Understanding more about his traits and characteristics will give you an insight into how he thinks and also how he reacts in romantic and commitment situations.
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If a Virgo guy likes you he will want to ask a lot of questions and you should see this as a compliment. Alternatively, if he has already made up his mind that he is not interested in you he will definitely not waste his time in asking you questions.
Because of his analytical mind, he may even be watching your eyes or other body languages for reactions. His biggest fear is possibly being taken for a fool or an idiot.
This is generally not to play mind games, it is just his way of assuring himself that he has an honest partner.
If your Virgo crush is not asking you many questions and you are concerned that he is losing interest in you. It is important to find out why. Check out my article below in which I have given further tips that may help.
Related article: Virgo man ignoring me – What should I do?
Are Virgo Men Players?
A lot of guys are considered players who build up hope with false promises and if you, like me, have been on the receiving end of this it certainly makes you warier in forming new relationships with men.
The good news is that a Virgo male generally is driven by emotional connection and emphasizes with women in these situations. However, he sometimes cannot help himself in appearing to play mind games.
I know how frustrating this can be, but it is just their way of finding out about you rather than actually playing mind games.
Virgo men tend to want to understand everything about you including your ambitions in life.
A Virgo male also wants you to see his intellectual side while talking to you. He wants you to see that he is leading the way and knows what he is doing.
Sometimes this behavior can come across as arrogant and even cocky. However, this is just his way of establishing how consistent you may be in a future relationship.
It’s all about consistency with a Virgo guy so it is important that you show him how focused you are with how you think.
A Virgo man’s character cannot put up with continual changes in his life.
It may seem sometimes that he is playing mind games but doesn’t initially jump to this conclusion. Try to keep your cool and discover what is at the bottom of his questions.
See Also: Why is a Virgo Man slow to commit?
If Your Virgo Man Is Playing Mind Games
Although it is not very common for a Virgo male to play mind games he may as a test, be worried you have been doing something that you shouldn’t. There is a possibility that he is looking for an excuse to step back or let you go.
As I have already said, a Virgo guy is usually very intelligent he will know how to turn you off.
If this is the case you may not be aware of it straight away. You may even be quite surprised at how manipulative he can be at getting what he wants.
See also: The secret a woman must know in understanding a Virgo male
Virgo men will go all around the houses to avoid a head-on confrontation. If you feel he is being evasive it is important that you don’t fall for his way of thinking.
He will avoid telling you that he is not interested but create a situation where you make the decision to finish it.
If you think he may be playing mind games you need to find the reason. Remember, he puts a lot of store in being truthful.
He is also totally against anyone playing mind games with him. If he felt this was happening he would completely cut off rather than compromise.
Be Open And Upfront
When a Virgo guy is looking for his ideal partner he will want someone who will be honest with what they are feeling and thinking.
He does not want someone who is false and trying to be someone they are not.
Honesty is a major thing that a Virgo man looks for in a woman. He will respect anyone who appreciates him enough to tell him like it is.
Holding back with thoughts and feelings will lower his opinion of you, but you must read the signals and know when to open up. Getting it wrong may be seen by him as trying to press him into a committed relationship that he may not be ready for.
Bear in mind that he is not into mind games, there is usually something more in his intelligent mind that needs to be established.
If you have had relationships with guys of other star signs, I understand why you may be thinking a Virgo also does the same. This is generally not the case. Try giving him the benefit of the doubt and trust he is not being underhand.
Some of his questions are directed at finding out more about you and how you react to situations. In a way, this could be viewed as very positive because it shows he is interested in you.
I hope this article has given you a little comfort that when dating a Virgo man that he is unlikely to be playing mind games with you. In fact, it may well be the opposite.
How To Play Mind Games With a Guy Over Text
The easiest way to link into the subconscious mind of a Virgo guy is through text messages.
Everyone has a cell or mobile phone these days and text messaging has become a favorite way to communicate.
However, sending messages with words that have a specific meaning can go direct to a guy’s subconscious mind and change the way he thinks.
Sometimes all a Virgo guy needs is a bit of change to his thought patterns, and this can easily be achieved by following a simple strategy. Getting him to think of you will make him want to know more about you.
Take a look at one of my articles entitled ‘How to flirt with a Virgo man via text’.To see if you can join the 100’s of women who have had great success with this strategy.
A good relationship is built on communication. Virgo man mind games are generally in the imagination of a woman who is unsure of the relationship. A Virgo guy will generally be open with you if he feels he is getting the same in return.
Understanding his traits and characteristics, and being able to talk openly is the best way of gaining each other’s respect which could then lead to love.
Getting him to communicate with you can easily be achieved by following the steps in my article Text Psychology – How and why does it work?
Dating a Virgo man can have its ups and down’s but if you can find a good one it is well worth the journey.
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I hope you find love and contentment with your Virgo crush.
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