Signs a Virgo Man Is Not Interested In You
It is normal for a Virgo man to sometimes be quite distant, possibly giving the false impression he is not interested in you.
He can also sometimes come across as aloof and cold even when underneath this reserved exterior he has a yearning desire for you.
You, like me, will find these mixed signals frustrating and really confusing, but with patience and understanding, a woman can learn how to treat these moods as imposters.
Knowing how a man, born under the star sign of Virgo, thinks in relationship situations, will open a gate to a man who is trustworthy, and who will generally make a passionate long-term partner.
Virgo man is ruled by the planet Mercury giving him characteristics that make him want to be in control of everything he does, including his emotions. This star sign in a male is one that draws attraction from many other women, but he is content with a woman who really understands him.
If you want your Virgo crush to start paying serious attention to you, or you need to re-spark the passion in your relationship you need to take action before his head is turned towards another.
A Virgo guy is a deep thinker so a woman sometimes needs to change his thinking to get him to re-focus on her. Read on to learn the proven techniques that you can use on your Virgo crush to re-direct his interest totally on you.
Get your Virgo man thinking about you
Because of the complex characteristics of a Virgo man sometimes a woman does not notice his disinterest until it is too late.
Building a bond with him in the early stages will ensure that he remains content with you, and you alone! However, this bond can still be created even though your Virgo man seems preoccupied and not interested in you.
A Virgo guy is one that yearns for a stable long-term relationship rather than one night stands.
However, he would be put off by a woman who tried to take the lead and push herself on him, so a more subtle way forward is usually called for.
Studies have found that a Virgo man has a craving to be with a woman who understands this hidden need.
Each situation is different so you have to discover the trigger that will unlock his inner desire which will give you the information you need to get him to commit to you.
The link in the paragraph below may give you, as it did me, the answer that you have been looking for.
Relationship expert James Bauer has years of experience and has developed a unique method that has helped 100’s of women to master this hidden desire. It is also a stupidly simple technique, that you can easily put into place, to have your Virgo guy, completely besotted with you.
James has prepared a short video in which he explains a man’s hidden desire, and also how you can use his method to get your Virgo crush to focus on you. Click this blue link to discover His Secret Obsession.
Why a Virgo Man Seems Not To Be Interested In You
Why guys act distant when they like you is something that can be quite baffling, but I will try to explain here.
The main reason is he sometimes has a very difficult time verbally expressing how he feels. Rather than trying to explain what is on his mind he tends to let emotions build up.
This is because he is very analytical in his outlook on life and needs assurances that will avoid mistakes in the future.
With such character traits, it is difficult sometimes to pick up on the signs a Virgo man is interested in you or distracted by problems that he has difficulty in explaining.
A Virgo man can be solitary if he has things playing on his mind to do with work for instance. Or alternatively, inner personal problems that he is struggling with.
See also: How Virgo men show love and express affection
Leaving a Virgo man alone
This is not a time for you to get emotional, imagining that you may have lost him to another woman.
It is just that sometimes it is best to take a step back and not crowd a Virgo man who might just need his own space.
Avoid trying to get his attention by being full-on, this could have the reverse result of what you are looking for.
The star sign a person is born under gives an indication of his characteristics and traits.
You may be surprised to learn that leading astrologers believe that Cosmic compatibility plays a large part of a successful relationship.
This is based on the energies of the two individuals.
Men and women think differently about emotion and relationships which is so overlooked by a lot of women.
Related article: Virgo man traits and characteristics
Virgo man’s complex characteristics
I recently came across a program that has had very favorable results for scores of women in getting a Virgo guy to fall in love with them, as well as re-uniting couples after a breakup.
The secret lies in a system that can influence a Virgo man’s thinking patterns. So if you are trying to get a relationship going with someone you fancy, or trying to re-light the fires of passion with your current crush, this may well be for you.
The program has been devised by relationship expert Amy North and uses a technique of carefully crafted words with subliminal meaning sent by text message. Wording phrased in a subtle way can have a magical effect on a man’s brain.
If you prefer to get right into it, you can listen to Amy as she explains her Text Chemistry in a video here.
Texting is now the modern-day way to communicate and saves any embarrassing face to face rejections.
I was so impressed with Amy’s program that I wrote a review so that you can see if it is something that will get your Virgo crush interested in you?
Text messages sent with the right words can make a man desire and want you. Read more in my review here.
So, don’t give up, this article will suggest ways of getting him to focus his attention on you.
A Virgo man has characteristics that make him slow in showing his feelings.
He needs to know as much as he can about a woman to avoid possibly being hurt emotionally later on.
He needs to feel that he has made the decision to progress a relationship rather than feeling he has been pushed into it.
See also: Tips on dating a shy Virgo man
How To Know When a Virgo Man Is Done With You
If you have the hots for a Virgo guy you need to be able to subtlely bring him out of his shell so that he feels comfortable.
You must get him to lead the relationship rather than chase him. A Virgo man is usually slow to make up his mind about a person.
This may seem as though he is ignoring you but could be wondering how to move things forward.
So, how to get him interested in you without coming on too strong?
Carry on reading this article and discover other subtle ways to bring out his caring characteristics which will make him fall head over heels in love with you.
Understanding how a Virgo guy thinks will help a woman build a trustworthy relationship.
Related article: Virgo man ignoring me, What should I do?
Understanding a Virgo man
I recently reviewed a method called Virgo Man Secrets by a leading astrologer and relationship expert Amy North.
In her well-researched work, Amy explains a Virgo man’s complex characteristics, as well as how a Virgo guy thinks and acts in situations regarding romance and relationships.
Learning about his thought patterns will put you in the driver’s seat in finding that magic ingredient that will spark love between you. It will help you build your relationship making him want you and only you.
Startling facts are revealed in my review which may help you to see if it is just shyness holding him back. You can find out more about the traits and characteristics in my review of Virgo Man Secrets here.
Gaining the Virgo Man’s Interest
There are certain things that a Virgo guy will do when he is interested or in love with you.
Being punctual, putting you first, and calling when he says he will. As well as being there for you in your good and bad times.
However, he only does these things for the woman he loves.
Therefore, if he used to do these things and has suddenly stopped, it could be a sign that he is no longer finding you attractive.
Alternatively, he has other problems on his mind that he needs to sort out.
This is where you need to be patient in comprehending the subtle signals that he is throwing off.
Once you learn how to read these signals you will be able to adjust to the situation.
In this article, I am going to delve deeper into some signs that can help you figure out if indeed your Virgo man is truly interested in you or not.
I’m sure, you like me, learned early on that some people are naturally attracted to each other like magnets.
While others have to grow to like each other by uncovering their hidden shyness to develop a relationship. It is all about a learning curve and getting used to each other.
There is a distinct difference in how women think about a relationship compared to men. This then leads a woman to overlook something that can be easily rectified.
I recently wrote this article The secret a woman must know in understanding a Virgo man, following discussions with several women regarding a Virgo guy’s interest levels.
You may find it follows a pattern to your situation?
Tips to focus a Virgo man’s interest back on you
If you have the hots for a Virgo guy, there are two things that you need to do. Understand his characteristics and establish a plan of action to have him focus on you.
Every relationship is different and it can be confusing trying to find an answer to your particular situation.
I have tried to make it as easy as possible by breaking this article into two sections. You can then decide which would help most with your particular situation.
Related article: Effective ways to love a Virgo man
Understanding how he thinks and reacts in different situations will help you know the real person.
Having a plan to move forward will keep you focused rather than in the dumps emotionally.
Because a woman naturally thinks from a female perspective she can overlook the most obvious thing that is holding a relationship back.
An experts view
One crucial factor that is missed by most women wanting a commitment from a Virgo guy has been the subject of a study by relationship expert James Bauer.
James has created this program to help women get a Virgo man to idolize them. He explains his method which can be discovered here.
A Virgo guy generally has some complex characteristics which need to be appreciated to avoid misunderstandings and upsets.
It is not a case of you changing who you are or doing everything to please him. It is just being aware so that you can avoid possible flare-ups that could cause a break.
If however, you are looking for ways to get his attention or concerned that he may be losing interest in you have a look at the links under ‘Have him focus on you’.
By clicking on the blue links below you will be taken to an article or video concerning that particular topic.
I have set the links so that you can read the article and when you click off will return to this page. This will give you the chance of deciding if the topic is really for your situation.
Have him focus on you.
There are two programs that I think you will find that may give you a route to a plan of action.
Both are by leading relationship experts who have not only had a personal experience but also helped 100’s of women in the same situation.
The first is Text Psychology and the second is an article explaining how a man’s attention can easily be focused to love just one woman and is called How to be irresistible to a Virgo guy.
I wrote a separate article on Amy’s program called Text Psychology which explains how messages sent with the correct wording can have a profound effect on the subconscious mind of the person reading them.
This unique method explained in an article I wrote which you can read HERE.
If you are trying to get the attention of your Virgo crush or wanting more interest from your current flame this could do the trick.
Messages sent with the correct wording can have a profound subliminal effect to sway a person’s focus.
How to be irresistible to a Virgo guy is an article I have written to help women re-evaluate themselves.
The physical attraction may be the initial ingredient but maintaining a romantic and contented relationship sometimes requires understanding.
How To Tell If A Virgo Man Is Not Interested
Is my Virgo man just using me?
When a Virgo man is interested in you, he will make time for you even when his days are overly busy.
He will somehow plan his schedule in a way that enables him to spend some time with his woman.
In other words, he will be very efficient with a woman he loves.
If you feel he is losing interest in you, it is important not to overreact. Try and pick up on the subtle signs that he is giving off, in case he has other pressing problems on his mind.
Don’t immediately jump to the conclusion that he is losing interest in you. He may well have other things on his mind that he is finding it difficult to share with you.
All my articles relate to situations regarding Virgo men so you may want to bookmark for future reference?
I also welcome your feedback or questions if I can be of help in comments at the bottom of each article.
See also: Tips on dating a shy Virgo man
How to tell if a Virgo man is into you
There are however some subtle things that you can do to get him thinking about you.
One of those is subliminal messages, that can be sent by text, which creates thought patterns that are directed at you.
It can be particularly handy if you feel your relationship needs a boost. Or alternatively, if you are trying to attract attention for the first time.
This may well be the hidden gem that you need to create your perfect partnership. Have a look at my article below.
You may be surprised at the effect this can have on your Virgo crush.
Trigger a Virgo mans interest: How to flirt with a Virgo man via text
Another thing that a Virgo man will do if he is not interested in you is to start making excuses for visiting you.
Your focus needs to be directed towards finding out if there are genuine reasons he can’t see you.
A Virgo man is slow to talk about things on his mind because he naturally assumes that other people are not going to be interested.
Without coming across as though you are cross-examining him, you need to ask pertinent questions to discover what is on his mind.
Posing the right questions will help you discover if he is losing interest in you.
A more in-depth character assessment can be found at Virgo man secrets, by renowned astrologer Anna Kovach, Virgo Man Secrets.
Why Virgo Man ignores your text
One thing that you might notice with a Virgo man who’s no longer interested in you is a decrease in communication.
This may be that he is starting to take you for granted and at this stage, it may well be worth playing a little hard to get.
If he is not interested and you find you are doing all the chasing you will need to consider changing your appearance for instance!
Or possibly look at yourself objectively to see if you have become too boring and predictable.
He may well be looking at another woman. If you want him you need to be honest with yourself.
If things are not the same you need to do something about it. Don’t sit and mope and be emotional as this could make things worse.
A great way of staying in touch, without coming on too strong is via text. As long as it is used properly.
Dating and relationship expert Amy North will advise you on the correct way to liaise, and also the most effective messages for your particular situation.
Have a look at my review article on Text Chemistry to see how to bring his thoughts back to you and only you.
On the other hand, if called by the woman he is not interested in anymore, he tends not to be as enthusiastic about the phone call.
The reason he responds is just that he is trying to be courteous and considerate.
Text messages may also become less, and in some cases, you might not receive any messages from him.
This can be infuriating as it may also mean that he is testing you and playing a little hard to get.
Signs a Virgo Man Is Losing Interest In You
A good sign that a Virgo man is not interested in you is if he does not want to have a second date with you.
Virgo men can be very picky and if he realizes that you are not a good match for him, he will definitely not go past the first date with you.
However, you also need to be honest with yourself and ask ‘ Did I do anything that may have put him off me?’
If you are really keen on him you need to develop a very subtle approach to finding ways to contact or casually bump into him.
Try to establish why he does not want a second date.
A subtle way of doing this is via text messages that contain subliminal signals that can spike his interest. Click this link to discover.
He won’t pay attention to you
If your Virgo man seems like he is not paying attention when you talk to him, he is clearly not interested in you.
It is important also to note that a guy who is interested in you will maintain eye contact. When talking to him notice if he is looking away and showing little interest.
Are you talking too much about yourself rather than finding out the topics that he may be interested in?
If your Virgo man has not been paying you the attention you deserve then you will want to change this immediately.
Drifting on, hoping that things will turn around may only lead to losing him for good.
If the above tips do not fit your particular situation you may want to check out the link below
Relationship expert, James Bauer has created a system that shows a woman exactly what she needs to do and say to get his attention.
Using these messages will excite his senses and make him obsessed with you. He tells you exactly how to do it here.
He criticizes you a lot
One thing you are likely to notice with a Virgo guy who no longer has an interest in you is his constant criticism.
This may well be about your imperfections and weaknesses.
You might even notice that he compares you with other women. This is probably a habit he never had before.
Maybe this is certainly a sign that he no longer wants to be in a relationship with you.
Is there any way you can open up the conversation to get him to talk about why he is criticizing you?
See also: How to keep a Virgo man wanting you
Virgo men are known to make very loving partners. When they are interested in a woman, they can put up with a lot of things.
If you think your Virgo man has lost interest, you need to explore a couple of the tips above to regain his attention.
Taking action could produce the perfect relationship that you deserve.
To learn how to revive his interest in you and bring back the magic.
Check out my review of Virgo Man Secrets by a world-renowned astrologer and relationship expert.
I hope the above tips have given you new ideas to re-ignite the interest of your Virgo guy.
There are lots more articles on my website if you would like to take a look. https://virgomen.net
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