Signs a Virgo Man Is Not Interested In You
A Virgo man can sometimes be quite distant, aloof and cold even when he is in love. In addition, he normally has a very difficult time in verbally expressing how he feels.
With such character traits, you will agree with me that it can be really hard to tell if he is interested in you or not.
A Virgo man can be solitary if he has things playing on his mind to do with work or inner problems that he is struggling with.
This is not a time for you to get emotional, thinking that he is not interested in you. It is just that sometimes it is best to ignore Virgo man who just needs his own space.
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On the other hand, there are certain things that a Virgo guy will do when he is interested or in love with you such as being punctual, responsible, calling when he says he will, as well as being there for you in your good and bad times.
There are however some subtle things that you can do to get him thinking about you. One of those is subliminal messages, that can be sent by text, that create thought patterns that are directed at you. This may well be the hidden gem that you need to create your perfect partnership
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However, he only does these things for the woman he loves. Therefore, if he used to do these things and has suddenly stopped, it could be a sign that he is no longer interested in you, or that he has other problems on his mind that he needs to sort out.
This is where you need to be patient to comprehending the subtle signals that he is throwing off. Once you learn how to read these signals you will be able to adjust to the situation.
A more indepth character assessment can be found at Virgo man secrets, by renowned astrologer Anna Kovach, Virgo Man Secrets.
In this article, I am going to delve deeper into some signs that can help you figure out if indeed your Virgo man is not interested in you. Below you can discover the one thing that most men are attracted to in a woman. You may be surprised, as it is not what you think!
How To Tell If A Virgo Man is Not Interested
He is not there for you
When a Virgo man is interested in you, he will make time for you even when his days are overly busy. He will somehow plan his schedule in a way that enables him to spend some time with his woman. In other words, he will be very efficient with a woman he loves.
If you feel he is losing interest in you, it is important not to overreact but to try and pick up on the subtle signs that he is giving off, in case he has other pressing problems on his mind.
Don’t immediately jump to the conclusion that he is losing interest in you without checking out if it may be something else worrying him.
Another thing that a Virgo man will do if he is not interested in you is to start making excuses for visiting you. Your focus needs to be directed towards finding out if there are genuine reasons he can’t see you. A Virgo man is slow to talk about things on his mind because he naturally assumes that other people are not going to be interested.
Without coming across as though you are cross-examining him you need to ask pertinent questions to discover what is on his mind. Posing the right questions will help you discover if he is losing interest in you. A lot of these questions, can be found in Virgo Man Secrets, by Anna Kovach.
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One thing that you might notice with a Virgo man who’s no longer interested in you is a decrease in communication. This may be that he is starting to take you for granted and at this stage it may well be worth playing a little hard to get.
If he is not interested and you find you are doing all the chasing you will need to consider changing your appearance for instance! Or possibly look at yourself objectively to see if you have become too boring and predictable.
On the other hand, if called by the woman he is not interested in anymore, he tends not to be as enthusiastic about the phone call, and the reason he responds is just that he is trying to be courteous and considerate.
Texts messages may also become less, and in some cases, you might not receive any messages from him. This can be infuriating as it may also mean that he is testing you and playing a little hard to get
Will Virgo man come back after your first date?
A good sign that a Virgo man is not interested in you is if he does not want to have a second date with you. Virgo men can be very picky and if he realizes that you are not a good match for him, he will definitely not go past the first date with you.
However, you also need to be honest with yourself and ask ‘ Did I do anything that may have put him off me?’
If you are really keen on him you need to develop a very subtle approach to finding ways to contact or casually bump into him, to try to establish why he does not want a second date. A subtle way of doing this is via text messages that contain subliminal signals that can spike his interest. Click this link to discover.
See also: More signs to know if he likes you
He won’t pay attention to you
If your Virgo man seems like he is not paying attention when you talk to him, he is clearly not interested in you. It is important to note that a guy who is interested in you will maintain eye contact when you are talking to him and will respond to you as the conversation goes on.
Are you talking too much about yourself rather than finding out the topics that he may be interested in?
If your Virgo man has not been paying you the attention you deserve then you will want to change this immediately.
Relationship expert, James Bauer has created a system that shows a woman exactly what she needs to do and say to get his attention and make him obsessed with you. He tells you exactly how to do it here.
See also: What you need to know to attract a Virgo man
He criticizes you a lot
One thing you are likely to notice with a Virgo guy who no longer has interest in you is his constant criticism about your imperfections and weaknesses. You might even notice that he compares you with other women, which is probably a habit he never had before.
This is certainly a sign that he no longer wants to be in a relationship with you. Is there any way you can open up the conversation to get him to talk about why he is criticizing you?
Virgo men are known to be very loving partners and when they are interested in a woman, they can put up with a lot of things. On the contrary, if a Virgo man does not like you, he will criticize you, ignore you or over-analyze you.
In addition, communication stops or reduces, and you may no longer receive texts or calls from him.
To learn how to revive his interest in you check out our review of Virgo Man Secrets by a world renowned astrologer and relationship expert.