How to Talk to a Virgo Man About Feelings – 6 Easy Tips to Relax Him

Last Updated on February 3, 2022

couple looking at cameraVirgo men are often very careful when selecting a mate and they are always looking for one they can spend the rest of their life with rather than a casual one-night stand.

Usually very charismatic, confident, and outgoing on the surface, inside the male born under the zodiac sign of Virgo, is slow to show his true feelings.

He tends to be very analytical in his approach to everything in life but more so when dealing with romance and affairs of the heart. He craves the security of a loving partner in a long-term relationship but is wary about giving his love and being hurt later on.

Therefore, it tends to take quite some time before you are able to talk to a Virgo man about feelings. Trying to push him into a commitment could easily backfire, so the best way forward is to be patient and allow him to see you in your true light.

Learning how to encourage a Virgo Man to open up about his feelings will help you build a solid basis for a long-term relationship. He will express his feelings for you if he knows you understand what he is looking for from a relationship.

I know how frustrating it can be when you have the hots for a Virgo guy who is slow to respond. But rather than wishing and hoping that he will declare his love for you, understand the main thing he wants from a relationship, and you will be surprised how quickly he opens his heart to you.

Understand this one thing, as explained in this video, that a Virgo man wants in a permanent relationship, and you will hold the key to your future happiness with the man of your dreams.

Other than that, a Virgo man is very sensitive, honest, and trustworthy. What’s more, he loves to have his space and dislikes needy and possessive women.

So, if you are looking to share your feelings with a Virgo guy, it is important that you take his personality and what he really wants from a woman in a relationship into consideration.

In addition, always remember that saying what you feel will either wreck your connection with a Virgo guy or intensify it. You just need to make sure he understands you are prepared to give him what he craves from the woman he loves.

In this article, you are going to gain insights into how to share feelings with a Virgo man and how to get him to open up and let you know what he is ‘really’ thinking. Please keep reading to find out more.

Ways To Talk To A Virgo Man About Feelings

Woman with arm on his shoulder to encourage a Virgo man to talk about his feelingsWhen talking to a Virgo man about your inner feelings, it is wise to be reserved until he has started to open up.

Your Virgo crush may take some time to make up his mind that he is not going to get hurt emotionally. Follow the tips in this article to make sure you don’t make him feel pressured.

Be respectful

A Virgo male is very respectful. Therefore, when sharing your thoughts and feelings with him, it is important that you do it respectfully.

There is really no point in getting emotional and shouting to try to make a point. Staying calm will get his respect and ensure that you maintain a healthy atmosphere for your discussion with your Virgo boyfriend.

Your non-verbal communication also plays a big role in how you communicate your feelings. Losing your temper and throwing things will only reduce his regard for you.

Therefore, always remember to be mindful of your facial expressions, tone of voice, and body language when expressing yourself to a Virgo man.

A recent study by a leading relationship coach uncovered a startling theory that is latent in Virgo men. Listen to this short video to see if this is the answer to making your Virgo crush open up to you to become his soul mate.

Be honest

Not only do Virgo men admire honesty, but they are also very intuitive. Therefore, genuineness and truthfulness are highly important when sharing your thoughts and feelings with your Virgo soul mate.

Your Virgo boyfriend will certainly not be very happy and receptive if he realizes that you are playing mind games.

He needs to know that you are open and consistent in what you say. In addition, once you get to know him, you do not need to fear any vulnerability.

Related article: How to make a Virgo man miss you

woman sitting at a deskBe considerate

A Virgo guy can be highly sensitive. See some other famous Virgo men here.

Therefore, you need to be careful with how you handle disagreements by recognizing statements that are likely to trigger anger.

It is important that you not only avoid attacking him but also that you take into consideration his point of view and expectations.

In other words, it is important that you avoid making your discussion with your Virgo partner one-sided by assuming that you are always right.

Helpful link: Things you need to know when dating a Virgo guy

Avoid criticizing

Virgo men love criticizing others, but they dislike being criticized. So, when expressing your feelings of anger or frustration, it is important that you avoid blaming your Virgo guy.

On the contrary, it is important that you focus on talking about what you think or feel without making your statements about him and what he is doing wrong.

In other words, it is important that you take responsibility or ownership of your feelings.
The idea is to talk to him in a way that will encourage him to listen to you.

Related article: How Virgo men show love and affection

Keep your calm

Even when angry, it is important that you explain to your Virgo partner how he has hurt your feelings in a calm way. This is really important because Virgo men are not very good at dealing with emotional people.

A Virgo guy will only hear you out if you are able to stay calm and collected while explaining how you feel. Therefore, it is important that you think beforehand, about what you should say to him and how you will say it.

See also: How to seduce a Virgo man using text messages

However, it is important that you wait until you cool down and think things through. This helps to ensure that you have a clearer picture of what is bothering you.

If you are receiving mixed signals from a Virgo guy you may find it helpful to check out my review here on Virgo men characteristics and what makes them tick!

man and woman exercising in field with their arms outstretchedGive him space

Virgo men love to have their personal space and time. So, before approaching him for a discussion, it is important that you assess whether he is ready to talk with you.

It is always best to make time to talk so problems can be ironed out without distractions, or with him making an excuse to be somewhere else.

In addition, Virgo men dislike clingy and needy partners. Therefore, it is important that you avoid smothering him because he will withdraw.

On the other hand, when you give your Virgo lover space and time, it helps him calm down and in the process helps to reassess himself and his actions.

Furthermore, giving yourself space and time to calm down, for instance, prevents you from saying regretful things and lashing out at your Virgo partner.

Related article: Five reasons why a Virgo man seems suddenly distant

Final Thoughts

Understanding your feelings and owning them is highly important more so when dealing with the sensitive and intuitive Virgo male. When you learn how to talk to a Virgo man about feelings you can each express yourselves to strengthen your bond.

The real secret of a lasting relationship with a man born under the sign of Virgo is to understand, his character. I do believe that by focusing on the tips above, you will be able to communicate effectively with your Virgo man.

However, I recently reviewed a manual by a leading astrologist and relationship expert, which covers everything a woman needs to know to ensure a long-term commitment with a Virgo guy.

You can read it here, and I hope you find the answers you are seeking

There are lots more articles regarding situations with a Virgo man on my website Check it out, and feel free to contact me in the comments if you need any other help.

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