How to Date A Virgo Man – Tips For Success

Last Updated on December 15, 2021

couple on a dateLearning how to date a Virgo man can be easy and enjoyable once you have understood the ways to gain his trust.

He can appear shy and reserved at first until he gets to know you but will open up when you know which buttons to push, as explained in this article.

Sometimes it can be quite frustrating in discovering how much a guy likes you, especially if you have the hots for this charismatic Virgo star sign.

Therefore, if you want to know how to date a Virgo man and win his heart, it is important to understand his characteristics.

For instance, Virgo men are generally, intelligent, hardworking, practical, and can also be labeled as perfectionists.

This zodiac sign is the most compatible with other signs of the zodiac, so if you want him, you need to make sure you get his attention focused on you. A man with Virgo characteristics is usually in demand by other women who are drawn to him.

If a Virgo guy allows you to get to know him, you will find him to be down-to-earth and honest. When committed, a Virgo guy will usually make a reliable and trustworthy lover.

I say if he allows you to get to know him! They are generally cautious, and will not open up if they feel they are being pressured or have a chance of being hurt emotionally later on.

I recently wrote a review on an excellent book by leading relationship expert Anna Kovach which explains a Virgo man’s traits and characteristics.

Understanding how your Virgo crush thinks and acts in situations will help in making him your own. If you would like to know more about how a Virgo man ticks you can find out in my review of Virgo Man Secrets which includes Sextrology here.

It is also important to enlighten yourself about the qualities that a Virgo man wants in a woman such as honesty, independence, and confidence.

In addition, Virgo men often have very high standards not only for themselves but also for what they expect in others. Beauty comes in many forms for the discerning male who has Venus, the planet of love as his ruler.

Physical attraction is of course important and a Virgo guy will probably be drawn to a woman who is smart casual rather than over the top with makeup or too ‘sloppy joe’ that implies ‘a take me as you find me’ attitude.

With that in mind, below are some top tips for dating a Virgo man.

How To Date A Virgo Man

girl flirtingFirst Impressions Matter

If you want your Virgo man to be interested in you, it is important that you make a good first impression on him.

For instance, Virgo men admire women who have a natural look. Minimal makeup, clean simple hairstyle, and clothing that is not too flashy.

Therefore, when going on a date with a Virgo guy, it is important that you take care of your appearance.

He is looking for an honest reliable woman, not one that wants to be the center of attraction.

A Virgo guy has an honest outlook on life and expects the same from a partner.

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Going from Like to Love is a Sequence of stages that need to be triggered in the super-organized mind of a Virgo Man.

If you are trying to win more affection from a Virgo man for the first time, or maybe wanting to increase his passion for you in a relationship or even to repair the damage of a breakup,

You must understand how to trigger the desire principle that he craves in a relationship/ You can find out EXACTLY how to do it below.

This desire principle has been the subject of intense research by relationship expert James Bauer. He's discovered the psychological link in a man's mind which is the key to elicit strong feelings of desire, love, and incredible attraction.

If you are feeling down because your man is ignoring you, or you're worried that he may be pulling away, possibly into the arms of another woman, then this could be the key ingredient that you are missing.

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He is not into the psychological mind games of trying to raise his interest by being late for a date for instance. He will take it as a snub rather than be desperate to see you.

Related article: How to be attractive to a Virgo man

Be Yourself

Virgo men admire honest women. Therefore, to win the Virgo man, it is important that you show him you have an honest character.

It can be very tempting to pretend that you are someone you are not when you are head over heels for a Virgo male. But take my word for it, he will be off like a shot if he thinks you have deceived him in some way.

Rather than trying to impress him, it is much more important to find out more about him and how he thinks and reacts.

A Virgo man usually has a reserved character and if you want him to become interested in you it is important to understand what turns him on.

Leading relationship coach James Bauer has produced a study that has helped 100s of women understand the one important fact that makes a magnetic attraction and that has a lasting effect on a couple in a relationship.

Dating a Virgo man starts with understanding what he wants from a woman, and you, like me, maybe amazed how knowing this can create your dream partnership. James explains more in this short video and you can make up your own mind if you have what your crush is looking for.

woman looking online for a dateHowever, you do not need to pretend that you are interested in something when you are not.

You also do not need to play games or lie to be a person you are not, just to impress your Virgo guy.

Your Virgo crush will certainly withdraw or pull away if he realizes you are being insincere. So, from the get-go, it is important that you let him know the true you.

Related article: Signs a Virgo man likes you

Stimulate His Mind

Virgo men are intelligent. What’s more, they admire smart women.

So, if you want to stimulate the heart of a Virgo male, it is important that you stimulate his brain.

It is important that you familiarize yourself with topics that your Virgo crush is interested in. You will gain his attention and respect if you show even a little knowledge of his pastimes.

Doing this will engage you both in interesting conversations which will enhance the relationship.

If you are talking to a Virgo guy you have met online, you need to know how to proceed. Check out Online Allure, for tips to help you move forward to regular dating.

In other words, you need to prove to your Virgo crush that you have the wit and ability to keep up with his intellectual side.

See also: Gift ideas for the Virgo man

Avoid Being Clingy

Excitement about meeting a Virgo male who has all your preferred qualities can sometimes make you resort to putting on a front. However, it is important to note that a Virgo man in love wants an independent woman.

If you want a Virgo man to commit to you, it is important that you avoid being clingy or needy, and show him you are able to run your own life.

You need to prove to your Virgo crush that you have the ability to balance a relationship with your interests, hobbies, and career, as well as show an interest in his pastimes.

If you have the hots for a Virgo guy and want to know how to get him to chase you, even if he seems disinterested, there are ways of getting his attention. Once you have his interest you can start building a connection by understanding how he is going to react.

Take a look at my review of Virgo man secrets that includes Sextrology to truly understand how to win his love. Suffocating your Virgo man with constant attention will make him lose interest in you, so it is vital that you know how to move forward slowly.

couple on a date holding handsTake It Slowly

Patience is a key factor when dating a Virgo male, particularly after you have communicated your interest in him.

Virgo men are serious and cautious. They love taking their time before deciding if they want to spend the rest of their lives with a particular woman.

How to make a Virgo man obsessed with you

Therefore, it is important that you let your Virgo crush do the chasing. Pushing or rushing him to commit to you before he is ready will probably make him pull away.

It is important that you give him time to get to know you and to be more comfortable around you. Playing it cool and making yourself alluring will add a bit of mystery that will naturally make him interested to find out more about you.

Care must be taken in not appearing standoffish! Or so distant that you make him conclude that you are not interested in a relationship. You may find it helpful to read another of my articles on ‘How to keep a Virgo man wanting you’

Does a Virgo Man Need His Own Space?

A Virgo male tends to be a workaholic and sometimes needs his own space to be able to get things done.  So, your Virgo date is likely to work overtime or work from the house during his off days.

man listening to radio as woman readsWith that in mind, it is important that you learn to respect his work, and not get upset and immediately think he is losing interest in you.

Giving him a hard time when he is trying to complete important tasks can make him perceive you as someone who is unsupportive of his career and life goals.

Therefore, you should avoid complaining even when he does not show up for a date on time.

Your understanding and tolerance for what your Virgo partner loves will certainly make him feel loved and appreciated. It’s all about trust and getting away from questions like will a Virgo man lead you on?

The article below gives you some tips and answers to some questions relating to dating a Virgo man in the early stages.

See also: Does a Virgo man play mind games when dating?

Places To Go On a Date

Virgo men are adventurous and they love new experiences. What’s more, they also love good food.

During your first dates, you can find out about his favorite foods, which you can prepare for him at a later date.

So, if you want to impress your Virgo man, you can propose to go with him to venues that he has an interest in.

These could range from fairgrounds that bring out his adventurous side to museums that will appeal to his intelligence.

Making suggestions like this will assure him of your interest and he will feel comfortable and drop any barriers.

As explained above, a Virgo man has a very cautious nature when meeting new people. He may well be interested in you but will not show it until he is sure he will not be rejected.

You need to find ways of placing yourself in positions where he can talk to you on a casual basis.

Remember, a Virgo man hates to be chased so flirting and eye contact usually do the trick.

Related article: How to flirt and make eye contact

Final Thoughts On Dating a Virgo Man

The above tips for how to date a Virgo man will not only guarantee you a second date but also keep your guy forever interested in you. Always remember that he cherishes honesty so be yourself but aware of the things he is looking for in a woman.

If you would like to find out more about a Virgo man’s characteristics you can read my review of Virgo Man Secrets Here (which includes Sextrology.

This book was written by leading astrologer and relationship expert Anna Kovack and answers questions about the sometimes complex character of a Virgo man.

Please message me if you need any more advice on finding lasting happiness with a Virgo guy.

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