Tips On How to Date A Virgo Man
Dating a Virgo man can be easy and enjoyable once you have learned the ways to gain his trust. He can appear shy and reserved until he gets to know you.
Sometimes it can be quite frustrating in discovering how much a guy likes you, especially if you have the hots for this charismatic Virgo star sign.
Therefore, if you want to know how to date a Virgo man and win his heart, it is important to understand his characteristics.
For instance, Virgo guys are generally, intelligent, hardworking, practical, and can also be labeled perfectionists. This star sign is the most compatible with opposite signs of the zodiac, so if you want him you need to make sure you get his attention focused on you.
If they allow you to get to know them, you will also find them to be down-to-earth and honest. When committed, a Virgo man will usually make a reliable and trustworthy lover.
I say if they allow you to get to know them! They are cautious, and will not open up if they feel they are being pressured or maybe hurt emotionally later on.
I recently wrote a review on an excellent book by leading relationship expert Anna Kovach which explains a Virgo man’s traits and characteristics. Understanding how your Virgo crush thinks and acts in situations will help in making him your own. See my review of Virgo Man Secrets here.
It is also important to enlighten yourself about the qualities that a Virgo man wants in a woman such as honesty, independence, and confidence.
In addition, Virgo men often have very high standards not only for themselves but also for others.
With that in mind, below are some top tips for dating a Virgo man. Please keep reading.
How To Date A Virgo Man
First impressions matter
If you want your Virgo man to be interested in you, it is important that you make a good impression on him.
For instance, Virgo men admire women who have a natural look. Minimal makeup, clean simple hairstyle, and clothing that is not too flashy.
Therefore, when going on a date with a Virgo guy, it is important that you take care of your appearance. He is looking for an honest reliable woman, not one that wants to be the center of attraction.
A Virgo guy has an honest outlook on life and expects the same from a partner.
He is not into psychological mind games of trying to raise his interest by being late for a date for instance. He will take it as a snub rather than be desperate to see you.
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Virgo men admire honest women. Therefore, to win the Virgo man, it is important that you show him you have an honest character.
It can be very tempting to pretend that you are someone you are not when you are head over heels for a Virgo fella. But take my word for it, he will be off like a shot if he thinks you have deceived him in some way.
Rather than trying to impress him, it is much more important to find out more about him and how he thinks and reacts. A Virgo man has a reserved character and if you want him to become interested in you it is important to understand what turns him on.
A leading relationship coach has done a study on how to make a Virgo man obsessed with you. It might be the one thing that will create your dream partnership. Listen to this short video and hear James explain A Virgo man’s secret desire.
However, you do not need to pretend that you are interested in something when you are not.
You also do not need to play games or lie to be a person you are not, just to impress your Virgo crush.
Your Virgo crush will certainly withdraw or pull away if he realizes you are being insincere.
So, from the get-go, it is important that you let your Virgo crush know the true you.
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Stimulate his mind
Virgo men are intelligent. What’s more, they admire smart women.
So, if you want to stimulate the heart of a Virgo male, it is important that you stimulate his brain.
It is important that you familiarize yourself with topics that your Virgo crush is interested in.
You will gain his attention and respect if you show even a little knowledge of his pastimes.
Doing this will engage you both in interesting conversations which will enhance the relationship.
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In other words, you need to prove to your Virgo crush that you have the wit and ability to keep up with his intellectual side.
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Do not be clingy
Excitement about meeting a Virgo male who has all your preferred qualities can make you lose your independence.
However, it is important to note that a Virgo man in love wants an independent woman.
If you want a Virgo man to commit to you, it is important that you avoid being clingy or needy.
You need to prove to your Virgo crush that you have the ability to balance a relationship with your interests, hobbies, and career.
If you have the hots for a Virgo guy and want to know how to get him to chase you, even if he seems disinterested, check out my article here.
Suffocating your Virgo man with constant attention will make him lose interest in you.
Take it slow
Patience is a key factor when dating a Virgo male, particularly after you have communicated your interest in him.
Virgo men are serious and cautious. They love taking their time before deciding if they want to spend the rest of their lives with a particular woman.
How to make a Virgo man obsessed with you
Therefore, it is important that you let your Virgo crush do the chasing. Pushing or rushing him to commit to you before he is ready will make him pull away.
It is important that you give him time to know you and to get more comfortable around you. Playing it cool and making yourself alluring will add a bit of mystery that will naturally make him interested to find out more about you.
Care must be taken in not appearing standoffish! Or so distant that you make him conclude that you are not interested in a relationship. You may find it helpful to read another of my articles on ‘How to keep a Virgo man wanting you’
Does a Virgo man need his own space?
A Virgo male tends to be a workaholic and sometimes needs his own space to be able to get things done. So, your Virgo date is likely to work overtime or work from the house during his off days.
With that in mind, it is important that you learn to respect his work, and not get upset and immediately think he is losing interest in you.
Giving him a hard time when he is trying to complete important tasks can make him perceive you as someone who is unsupportive of his career and life goals.
Therefore, you should avoid complaining even when he does not show up for a date on time.
Your understanding and tolerance for what your Virgo partner loves will certainly make him feel loved and appreciated. It’s all about trust and getting away from questions like will a Virgo man lead you on?
The article below gives you some tips and answers to some questions relating to dating a Virgo man in the early stages.
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Places to go on a date
Virgo men are adventurous and they love new experiences. What’s more, they also love good food.
During your first dates, you can find out about his favorite foods, which you can prepare for him on a later date.
So, if you want to impress your Virgo man, you can propose to go with him to venues that he has an interest in.
These could range from fairgrounds that bring out his adventurous side to museums that will appeal to his intelligence.
Making suggestions like this will assure him of your interest and he will feel comfortable and drop any barriers.
As explained above, a Virgo man has a very cautious nature when meeting new people. He may well be interested in you but will not show it until he is sure he will not be rejected.
You need to find ways of placing yourself in positions where he can talk to you on a casual basis.
Remember, a Virgo man hates to be chased so flirting and eye contact usually do the trick.
Related article: How to flirt and make eye contact
Final thoughts on dating a Virgo man
The above tips for dating a Virgo man will not only guarantee you a second date but also keep your Virgo man forever interested in you. Always remember that he cherishes honesty so be yourself but aware of the things he is looking for in a woman.
If you would like to find out more about a Virgo man’s characteristics you can read my review of Virgo Man Secrets Here. This book was written by leading astrologer and relationship expert Anna Kovack and answers questions about the complex Virgo.
Please message me if you need any more advice on finding lasting happiness with a Virgo man.
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