Are you beginning to feel that your Virgo man is losing interest in you and is not as attentive as he used to be?
Well, this happens sometimes as things become a little samey, but I am frequently asked ‘ Why is my Virgo man ignoring me’? and this is obviously more of a problem.
I’m sure, you like me have realized a Virgo guy can be somewhat complicated, mainly because he is not very good at expressing his feelings.
He may well have pressures at work or problems that he feels he is in control of solving himself.
It is not rare for your Virgo crush to miss you one minute and to be detached the next. Sometimes Virgo men in love pull away. This is all part of his makeup and sometimes the need to require his own space.
It is also not unusual for a Virgo guy to like someone but not make the first move for fear of rejection. This also follows on into a relationship in which he is reluctant to be pushy for fear of coming on too strong with a woman.
The good news is, the guy born in Virgo has great characteristics of honesty and loyalty and is one of the most attractive to women. Follow the advice in my article to get him to re-focus on you and not get snapped up by another woman.
If you have the hots for a Virgo guy he is worth fighting for, and I am going to give you proven tips to show you what you can do to stop him from ignoring you.
How to get his attention if Virgo man is ignoring you.
A subtle way of drawing him into you is by carefully worded text messages. Virgo guys are usually very intelligent and their brain is always on the go. They are generally very conscientious with their work and can get easily absorbed in things they find interesting.
Sometimes a girl needs to create a feeling of desire in her guy’s thoughts. This can be done with text messages, the meanings of which are absorbed directly into his subconscious mind. A simple thing like this is all that is needed to make him focus on the important things in life, like you!
However, sending irrelevant texts and too many of them could have a detrimental effect. Care must be taken in choosing the right words and sending the correct messages. Carefully worded texts that he is delighted to receive and texts that will unleash his hidden desire for you.
You may find it helpful to take a look at this 4-minute video called Text Chemistry by Amy North. In this Video Amy, who is a relationship expert, explains how these messages can grab the attention of any man. It can make him forget about other women, and just focus on you.
Virgo Man Ignoring Me – What Should I Do?
Therefore, if you have the hots for a Virgo guy you need to understand why he sometimes seems as though he is ignoring you.
This article will give you some insights into how he acts in a relationship.
However, if you have long term designs on a Virgo guy you may find it helpful to learn about how he thinks and reacts to situations.
A recent review I did of a book by a devoted astrologer and relationship coach explains more about the complex characteristics of a Virgo man. If you would like to know more about how your Virgo crush thinks and acts, take a look at my article.How to Get a Virgo Man to Commit.
Giving you the silent treatment or ignoring you is sometimes the typical behavior of Virgo men.
What are the Reasons why a Virgo man ignores me?
The reason why a Virgo man ignores you suddenly can be that he is not sure about how he feels about you. In addition, if a Virgo male is acting cold towards you, he may be busy, not ready to commit, or he has trust issues, just to mention, but a few.
Of course, every situation will be different. However, getting to know the basic characteristics of a Virgo guy will certainly help you to achieve a perfect relationship.
A Virgo man tends to know what he wants in life and has a clear idea of his ideal partner. Once he makes up his mind he will prove to be honest and a faithful lover for the right woman.
This woman just needs to know how he thinks in different situations and have a system for making him focus on her.
The rest of this article will give you insights into what to do when a Virgo man ignores you. Please keep reading.
Give him space
Virgo men can be moody and slow to point out something that has, maybe, upset them about you.
They take their time in formulating their feelings before raising the subject.
This can cause friction between you because he is very conscientious and may only be distracted by work issues. Because he is quiet, don’t automatically think that he is not interested in you.
Therefore, no matter how much you feel you want to address issues immediately, it is important that you give him time to raise the subject when he is ready.
For instance, if you have been texting your Virgo boyfriend and he has not been responding. You may well have been sending messages that aggravate a situation rather than make it better. He may be feeling awkward that he has not responded and has hurt your feelings. A Virgo guy hates to be chased, it might just need a more subtle approach.
Take a step back and relax rather than being concerned that he has not answered at once.
If a Virgo guy ignores you, it may be because he is annoyed about something you have done. What’s more, it could be that he has found out something and he is just irritated and uncomfortable.
When you have given him time to assess his own feelings you need to raise the subject of his quiet mood. The main aim here is to get him talking. You need to listen carefully because he may well beat around the bush before getting to the point.
If he is implying you have upset him in some way, it is best to apologize by saying ‘Sorry I don’t know what you mean’. This will allow him to go into more detail.
You may find you are bearing the brunt of his mood but in fact, he is being affected by other pressures.
If it turns out you are really at fault about something it is important that you give a sincere apology. He will pull away if he assumes you are pretending to be sorry.
When giving an apology, it is important that you let your Virgo partner know that you understand your mistakes.
On the other hand, if you’re not sure what the problem could be, it is important that you avoid blaming yourself. Always respect who you are and your Virgo man will do the same.
Give him time to cool off so that you can find out. A Virgo man wants a confident woman and will not respect someone who always agrees with them.
If you want your Virgo crush to get excited over you, it may help to read a review I did recently.
This review covers a book written by a leading astrologer and relationship expert. She explains in detail how a Virgo man thinks and reacts to situations regarding the opposite sex. If you want to know more about how a Virgo man acts in a relationship Read my review here.
Don’t Ignore a Virgo man back
When a Virgo man ignores you, one thing you are likely to do is to give him a cold shoulder when he starts getting close again.
However, Virgo man needs to know that you’re interested in him so that he can feel comfortable around you. Ignoring a Virgo man back can sometimes just lead to never getting started.
Be that as it may, it is important that you remain open to dialogue when your Virgo mate chooses to start a conversation.
Giving your Virgo partner the silent treatment can increase negative feelings and hostility. So, you can complement the Virgo male for having the courage to break the silence.
In the process, you can also let him know how much you love him, and how important he is to you. You can also use that opportunity to not only acknowledge the feelings of your Virgo man but also share your feelings.
Virgo men do not like to be pushed, rushed, controlled, or domineered. So, if you’ve given your Virgo boyfriend enough space and he is still distant, it is important that you let him initiate the reconciliation process.
Giving him pressure and chasing him will not make him come around. In addition, he needs to see that you have a life outside the relationship.
So, as you wait for your Virgo man to reconnect with you, it is important that you keep yourself busy with your career and personal goals and interests.
Of course, you also have to accept the worst outcome, that when a Virgo man ignores you, it might be because it’s over between you. The YouTube video below gives you some signs that a Virgo man is over you.
Virgo men give silent treatment for various reasons including loss of interest, trust, or being busy. Regardless of the reason, it is important you stay calm and logical. Have a look at this short video on Text Chemistryto see if it holds the key to kick-starting your relationship.
Give him time to come out of his shell and then get to the reason your Virgo man is ignoring you. Always remember, like all men, a Virgo will have some faults.
However, once you make the connection a Virgo guy will prove to be honest and reliable and devoted to the woman he loves. I hope you have found this article helpful and for more tips check out my site:https://virgomen.net/
My name is Charlene and I am a blogger and astrology enthusiast. I have always had a strong interest in Astrology and have been fascinated with how much the planets an effect on our lives and especially our relationships.
When I'm not blogging I enjoy spending time with my friends and family, going to the gym and listening to music.
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