Virgo Man In Bed- His Secret Desires

Woman in bed with Virgo manIt is sometimes wrongly assumed that the man born under the zodiac sign of Virgo is cold and without feeling.

This comes from their initial reserved attitude when meeting people they are unfamiliar with.

However, a Virgo man can be one of the most passionate of star signs in bed when a woman understands his hidden desires and what really turns him on.

The man born in Virgo likes life to be orderly and without conflict. His ruling planet is Mercury which indicates a desire for control. However, Virgo is partnered with the sign of the virgin which hi-lights his romantic tendencies.

Although he likes to be in control he also wants a partner who can sexually stimulate him as well as being confident between the sheets.

A Virgo man tends to be a slow burner but when feeling completely comfortable with his partner can be the most passionate of all the star signs.

A Virgo man’s secret desire

A Virgo man has a very active imagination and is always thinking, which sometimes makes it difficult for him to relax completely. This, in turn, makes it hard for him to totally give himself emotionally to a woman when in bed.

A recent study by a leading relationship expert has discovered that a Virgo man is sexually stimulated by his partner whispering in his ear during lovemaking, often referred to as talking dirty.

This important topic is overlooked by the majority of women, either due to embarrassment or simply feeling stupid not knowing what to say.

Dating and relationship guru Felicity Keith has developed a program that removes the stigma surrounding this subject, by explaining exactly what this stimulation involves for a Virgo man.

If you want to drive your Virgo crush wild in bed I suggest you listen to a short video in which Felicity, personally explains The Language of Desire here. I’m sure, like me, you will find it a revelation.

What a Virgo Man Likes In Bed

girl being cuddled by manA Virgo man is usually very direct when the relationship has evolved into the bedroom. He may take his sweet time to become intimate with a partner, but he will not like being messed around.

Do not be afraid of discussing any different experiences that you feel will enhance the relationship, as Virgo men thrive on conversation. He will like the thought of talking through any issues you may want to bring up.

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Virgo men emotions

The Virgo male works on logic rather than emotion. They fall in love of course, but unlike many other star signs, they need to analyze their feelings rather than accept them.

They can sometimes feel vulnerable and want to avoid any hurt later on.

Avoid asking him questions about any experience you share until he starts leading the conversation. If he hasn’t had time to analyze his feelings you may well get an answer you were not expecting.

Try to avoid any emotional outbursts that may hint that you are manipulating him in any way. Tell him truthfully what you feel but be wary of denting his macho side.

The secret is getting him in the mood by allowing him to clear his mind. This is something a Virgo man likes in bed.

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The technique is important

man and woman in bedThe Virgo man tends to approach everything from a logical viewpoint and that includes sex when in bed.

This may sound very cold and calculating but it is how he judges his performance.

He will be alert, to see if you are enjoying what he does to you, so understanding what Felicity Keith teaches’ in The Language of Desire, will show you how to relate to him.

The male with the Virgo star sign is one that wants their sex to be perfect, so avoid being fake in any area. He will always prefer you to be honest about your experience so that he can be sure to improve next time.

You can be sure that he will not feel belittled if you are able to explain what you want. He is very much a lover who is a giver rather than a taker.

Allow him to take the lead

When a Virgo man has decided to go to bed with you, he wants you to know that your pleasure comes first. It is important to him that he has pleased you and he will feel fulfilled if he knows he has satisfied you.

Although they are very adaptable Virgo men like to take charge of any situation, this includes when with you between the sheets. They can sometimes appear dogmatic and fussy about surroundings if they are not up to standard.

If you are planning a sexual liaison with your Virgo crush at your place, make sure the setting is up to a high standard. A tidy room with low lights enhances the subtle visual enjoyment.

Clean sheets with a slightly perfumed aroma will enliven the senses.

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Important feedback

Virgo man with girlAs I said before a Virgo man is always thinking and if you have got him into bed you need to know how to keep his focus directed on you.

It is natural for him to want to please you all he can so it is important that you are confident enough to give him feedback.

He needs to feel that he has performed well and will appreciate you telling him how much you enjoyed a certain technique.

This will encourage him to want to keep the relationship fresh by looking for new ways to excite you.

If you are confident enough to be able to tell your Virgo crush how you feel and what really turns you on your relationship will go ballistic.

If you need a little help with knowing what and how to say things you can find the answers with Felicity Keith’s The Language of Desire here.

Discover new adventures together

Building a relationship together is all about feeling comfortable in each other’s company. Intimacy with a Virgo man in the bedroom will relax any inhibitions.

When he feels comfortable around you he will want to try new experiences and ways to make you happy.

By removing inhibitions it will open the door to discussing anything and everything. If there are things you have longed to do, or a bucket list you want to complete, talk about it.

If your sex life is good there is nothing that will stop him from doing everything he can to keep you.

In some quarters it is implied that a Virgo man can be prudish. This is likely to stem from his reserved nature but it is a long way from the truth.

He may be choosey when he is looking for a partner but once he is comfortable that you are the one a Virgo man will idolize you.

I hope my article has given you a better understanding of what a Virgo man wants in bed, but I found a YouTube video that explains more about his sex drive.

Between the two I’m sure you will have enough confidence to capture his heart between the sheets.

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Final thoughts

A Virgo man is sometimes a slow starter when getting into bed with a woman. He tends to favor building a relationship rather than a one night stand.

Of course, most men have sex on their minds but if you want commitment you should take things slow.

If you focus on the advice, by clicking the blue link, from Felicity Keith in her video The Language of Desire it will give you the confidence to make your Virgo man in bed a true lover.

Any inhibitions that either of you may have will disappear creating an environment of blissful happiness.

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