Why Is Virgo Man Being Distant – 5 Reasons to Worry

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Last Updated on March 22, 2023

Have you started to feel that your Virgo man being distant in your life seems to be pulling away?

Have you had a row, and things have been said that weren’t meant but now something is different between you?

It can be tough to find out what’s really going on with a Virgo because they are so independent and keep their thoughts to themselves.

However, don’t be too quick to jump to the conclusion that he is done with you. There could be other reasons.

Key Takeaways

He may be under pressure from work

Virgo men are very conscientious about their work and find it hard to share their feelings if they have problems.

He may feel you have become too demanding

Without realizing it, you may be putting too much pressure on him for more of his time or commitment.

You lack understanding

You do not understand what a Virgo man needs to be happy in a committed relationship. This video explains what you must know.

It may seem as though he doesn’t care at all about how you feel, but this couldn’t be further from the truth!

The fact of the matter is that Virgos want to please those around them so badly that it often causes them too much stress if things don’t go well.

Virgo Man Seems Suddenly Distant

All these situations can be worrying, and if not handled correctly and can lead to resentment and a possible breakup!

It is important to view things calmly and not jump to unfounded conclusions.

The tips in this article will show you ways to discover if your relationship has run its course or if your worries are totally unfounded.

But first, you need to be honest with yourself and decide if it is you who may be pushing him away.

After years of research, relationship expert James Bauer has discovered the hidden link that draws a man to wanting only one woman.

It is something that can be used to your advantage and is the one major thing he craves in a relationship, but will not talk openly about it.

It is the key to making him adore you and want you for his own.

Take a look before moving on, I think you may be really surprised as to what it is!!!

Signs of Virgo Man Pulling Away & Becoming Distant

It is difficult not to worry when someone you care deeply about shows signs of pulling away. But sometimes the reasons may be connected with something you don’t yet understand.

In this article, I am going to explain how to deal with the complex characteristics of a guy born under the zodiac sign of Virgo, and also help you to get your relationship back on track.

You, like me in the past, are seeing how the moods of a Virgo man can fluctuate.

However, don’t automatically think it is something to do with you. He can come across as reserved or even cold towards you if he has things playing on his mind, like the pressure of work possibly.

What you are experiencing is not unusual in a guy born under Virgo. Often, you just need to learn to give him some space when he seems to disappear into his shell.

However, he must not be allowed to take you for granted or expect you to fall in with everything he does. You must establish if he is just going through a quiet spell or if the magic of love is wearing thin!

If you are getting feelings that your Virgo crush is withdrawing into his shell and becoming distant, you need to do something about it. However, whatever you do, it needs to be subtle.

Awaken His Passion For You

Are you starting to feel things are a little different with romance in the bedroom? Are you picking up on signs that he is not as passionate about you as he used to be?

Well, this is something that cannot be overlooked, because once the passion starts to fade his mind could be drawn towards thinking about other women.

If you feel his ardor is cooling, the next couple of sentences may be the most important you ever read. 

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A combination of whispered words will raise the temperature in the bedroom to a boiling point.

You can take a sneak preview here to discover if this simple technique, will bring the passion back into your relationship, and guarantee he has his mind on you and only you.

When a Virgo Man Pulls Away

Sometimes something is needed to bring back the excitement that you shared when you first met.

Something that will re-light the flames of passion and make your Virgo crush treat you like the woman he first fell in love with.

I recently discovered a program, which you may like to take a look at, which shows you a proven way to bring your Virgo guy’s attention back onto you.

Without realizing it, you may have fallen into a rut that has become very Samey and a bit mundane.

The beauty of this system is it is simple to use and your crush will be totally unaware that you are getting him to re-focus on you.

It has been developed by leading relationship coach James Bauer who has worked with couples over the last 10 years resolving a variety of problems that arise in any partnership.

James has also studied the complex characteristics of a Virgo man and discovered a secret that he is actually desperate for his partner to understand, but most women don’t even know it exists.

With this knowledge, James has developed a proven method that women can easily use to re-ignite the flames of passion in their guy. It’s all about understanding the hidden emotions of a Virgo man and how to awaken his deepest longing for love.

Hundreds of women have been helped by understanding this method so you can be reassured that you are not alone with this problem of your Virgo man being distant.

If you want to get your man to focus on you it is important you understand this latent desire that is just waiting to be released.

James has produced a short video, so why not take a look to see if this is the answer to making your Virgo crush reconnect with you? What a woman must know to win a Virgo man’s heart.

The main thing is to try to think clearly and understand the signals he is sending out. Then decide on a course of action to put things right.

Why Is a Virgo Man Being Distant Suddenly

The reason why a Virgo man is suddenly distant is sometimes caused by a Virgo male being a bit of an introvert when he has things on his mind.

Initially, in a relationship, a Virgo man can come across as shy and reserved.

He takes his time to get to know someone, as well as having an active mind that will always see both sides of a problem.

This Virgo male trait also extends to his work and hobbies and he can easily get immersed in things he finds interesting.

Sometimes this leads to people around him being ignored.

If your man seems cold and indifferent to you. Read the rest of this article for five possible causes that you may not have thought about.

Related article: Virgo man ignoring me, what should I do?

What to do When a Virgo Man Needs Space

There could be lots of reasons why the Virgo man might pull back from you and seem unresponsive.

It is annoying if he is not returning your calls and appears distant. But it may be nothing to do with you.

It may look as though you have upset him in some way or you feel that he is losing interest in you.

However, he sometimes just needs his own space to think through anything on his mind.

You need to keep control of your emotions. A Virgo guy hates to be fenced or crowded.

Also, the last thing he wants while he is thinking is a needy woman bombarding him with phone calls and text messages.

There are subtle things you can do to let him know you are there for him while he sorts himself out.

The trick is giving him space but making sure he is thinking about you when he is on his own.

The article below will give you some tips that you may want to use.

Related article: Why has my Virgo man stopped texting me?

It’s a Virgo Traits Male Thing

He may crave some personal freedom to re-establish his own identity and assure himself that he is not being controlled.

In order to get this, he distances himself from you.

Without realizing it, you may have pressured him in some way. It is his inner self that is telling him to take a step back.

You need to take an honest look at the relationship. A short video that has helped me understand exactly what a Virgo man wants from a relationship can be viewed here.

Is he reacting to something that you are unaware of in his character? Do you really know everything you need to know about how he thinks and reacts to situations?

Virgo Man’s Reserved Character

It may yet not be a cause for concern. Providing he is still showing you ways in which he cares for you and is still spending some time with you.

Without coming across as too strong where he feels he is being cross-examined try to start a conversation to ask him how he feels.

Be willing to listen to what he has to say without getting emotional or interrupting. Sometimes a relationship can get a bit samey without anyone really being aware.

The initial sparkle starts to fade as each party becomes aware of the possible things that irritate them. Maybe all that is needed is a shot in the arm to reignite the passions.

Take a look at How to keep a Virgo man happy in a relationship, in which I delve deeper into how to keep a Virgo man interested in you.

The reaction of pulling back occasionally is quite normal in a Virgo man.

Care needs to be taken in not getting upset about it and trying to pressure him.

This will lead to resentment and he may lose complete interest in you.

Related article: How to make a Virgo man miss you.

Virgo Man Hurt Feelings

As with most people; A Virgo male will withdraw away from someone who has hurt his feelings.

Underneath the polished exterior is a very sensitive soul which can take a long time in exposing to other people.

He has a bit of a tendency to criticize others a little too easily but resents it when he is criticized himself.

However, the main thing you need to be is truthful.

A Virgo male has a real knack for being able to detect when he is being lied to and picks up if people are being honest with him or not.

If you have said something that you did not mean, then apologize.

Be sure you let him know you mean it because he will hold it against you if you are not sincere.

Related article: How to talk to a Virgo man about his feelings.

A Virgo Man In Love Can Still Pull Away

Try and manage to lever it out of him, the thing that has caused his distant behavior. If it’s something he says you have done it’s worth apologizing immediately rather than berating him for being silly.

He could be in love with you but still, pull away if things are not talked through and resolved.

When things have returned to normal you can find a way of raising the subject again and then discuss it openly.

In the early stages of a relationship, it’s all about finding out about each other’s, likes, and dislikes. This sometimes takes a while to surface when the thrill of a new intimacy is forming.

A Virgo man is prepared to give his all to a woman he loves as long as he receives respect for his feelings in return.

I recently reviewed a book by a devoted astrologer and relationship coach called Virgo man secrets.

If you think any of the above relates to your situation, you may find it helpful to read my review here.

I recently came across this YouTube video which gives some pointers to look out for in determining if your Virgo guy is over you.

Pretty drastic I know but being aware of the signs can give you a head start in putting things right. I hope it helps.

Virgo Man Being Distant and Losing Interest in You

The worst scenarios, of course, are if he is showing less and less interest in you, he feels the relationship has run out of steam or his attention is being drawn by another woman.

Is it possible that you are making yourself too available and depriving him of his natural instinct to be the hunter? Always remember, that he needs a challenge, so try to keep things fresh and exciting.

A Virgo man may seem very hot for you in the beginning but has discovered something that is putting him off.

A trait of the Virgo man is his desire to have the perfect woman. Not necessarily in looks but in how she brings out his basic desire to be wanted. Find out if you are giving him what he really needs in a relationship by listening to this short video here.

To become his perfect partner you need to fully understand his complex characteristics and his hidden desires.

When your Virgo crush seems as though he needs a little quiet time alone, don’t get panicky and question him because it might lead to a row.

Related reading: How to make a Virgo man want you.

Be His Perfect Woman

A Virgo man has a very honest character and as well as expecting the same in his woman, and will go out of his way not to hurt her feelings.

As I said before, he has an image in his mind of his perfect woman.

If something does not live up to this impression then he may just drop out completely.

Before you get to this stage you need to find a way of reigniting his passion for you.

The most obvious way that most women try is with sexual allure.

This however rarely works with a Virgo man. His intelligence tends to override his carnal instincts.

However, discovering what a Virgo man wants from a woman, as explained by relationship expert, James Bauer, may give you the answer that holds the key to your future happiness.

Men and women don’t think the same way. Fortunately, James gives you the male perspective and shows you what you need to do to spark his desire for you in this short video here.

The Excitement of the Chase

As I have explained above, the Virgo man hates to be pressured, however, he will still relish a partner that can hold her ground. More about the Virgo constellation can be found here.

In the initial stages of a relationship, the thrill of the new relationship overrides and outranks any flaws which may start to be looked at in detail later on.

This is the time a Virgo man will pull back and see which way you will go!

Is it best to show him you care about him or will you be relaxed to see if he will pursue you? It is always best in this situation to try to establish some middle ground.

You want to let him know you are interested but that you will not be taken advantage of.

Pulling back too much may signal to him that you are not interested. Discover more about what makes him tick and how he thinks.

You can read my recent review of a book by a leading relationship expert explaining all you need to know about the traits and characteristics of a Virgo guy Here.

Final Thoughts

If your Virgo man is being distant steer clear of reaching out to him on social media because he will not relish your relationship being broadcast and analyzed by other people.

An acceptable contact would be by text with a simple message along the lines of, “Hi, thinking of you today” and then back off and see what happens.

Alternatively, you may want to read my article on subliminal text messaging. This is a ‘how-to system’ that shows you the way to unlock a ravenous desire in your Virgo crush.

Because a Virgo man is a deep thinker his emotions are controlled by his mind and how he thinks. Carefully crafted words sent by text can create a yearning for the woman who sent them.

Contacting him via text with subliminal messages can make him think of you and focus on how good things could be between you.

This proven method could be the simple answer to finding true love. You can read my article here which explains exactly how it works.

It is then up to him to get back to you, and by not over-reacting he will want to rekindle the relationship.

I hope this article has helped you understand more about your Virgo guy. There are lots more articles on my website https://virgomen.net.Please feel free to bookmark them for future reference.

My joy is in giving

Charlene