How To Attract a Virgo Man – 5 Killer Tips to Win and Keep His Love

Last Updated on January 10, 2023

A woman needs to move carefully when she wants to know how to attract a Virgo man, one of the more cautious of the zodiac signs.

This cautiousness makes him slow to fall in love until he has assured himself she is the right partner for him.

This article will point out some pitfalls to avoid as well as some subtle tricks which will make him focus his attention on you.

woman opening door to Virgo man with flowersWhat attracts a Virgo Man

  1. A person with a good sense of humor.
  2. Someone who dresses well. Not flashy, but definitely not slovenly.
  3. A person who is independent, but who sometimes needs a shoulder to cry on.
  4. Someone who is not clingy but is dependable.
  5. A person who understands how to start a relationship with secret text messages like these.

Once you understand how to press his emotional buttons you will be able to set the pace of the relationship.

A recognized characteristic of the Virgo male zodiac sign is that he is slow in getting to know a person.

This is like a built-in safety valve to avoid the possibility of him being hurt later on.

Any attraction is something that needs to work both ways, and a Virgo man needs to feel he is making the running in creating a connection.

So it is vital that you learn how to create the environment of controlling the situation while making him think it is all his idea.

The majority of women make the mistake of believing that men think the same way as women regarding emotions and relationships.

This article explains how you can make him want you, and only you, just by knowing when and how to press his emotional ‘G Spot’ buttons.

If you have the hots for a Virgo man and you want to move things to the next level, you need to learn, not just how to attract him but also how to hold on to him in a relationship.

How To Attract a Virgo Man – The Easy Way

Woman smiling with her arm around a guys shoulder after learning how to attract a Virgo manYou can attract the attention of a Virgo man and make him fall in love if you take things slowly and don’t appear too pushy.

Although his nature is reserved, and possibly a little old-fashioned when he gets to know someone his true personality comes to the fore.

The good news is that a Virgo male has some great qualities.

Getting to know his character at an early stage will pay dividends.

It will give you the knowledge to turn a friendship into a long-term romantic relationship.

The initial steps on the road to romance are sometimes the most difficult. Getting a Virgo man to show an interest in you is the first hurdle.

A Virgo man is generally very reserved. He likes being in control and may find it difficult to make the first move for fear of being rebuffed.

This can be a problem because if you make the first move he may feel he is being chased.

So care must be taken to first understand what he is looking for in a relationship.

A possible way around this is by text. If done in the right way, it will spike his interest in you with subliminal messages.

Everyone these days has a mobile phone and communicating via text is the norm.

The problem is how often to text and the wording that makes the recipient read it.

Because this is a relatively new and important topic, I have written a separate article as a related post.

It explains the stupidly simple, attention-pulling text messages, that Virgo men are powerless to resist.

I hope this helps you to have a happy relationship with the man of your dreams.

You can either read more about this technique in my article HERE.

Or if you prefer you can watch a short video that explains the power of Text Chemistry here, and how easy it is to sow the seeds of desire for you in his subconscious mind.

Ways to Get a Virgo Man to Like You

A Virgo man will resent being chased because he likes to set the pace in any relationship.

To get a Virgo man to like you need a slow approach that makes him think it is all his idea.

You need to make opportunities where you place yourself to be noticed by him.

A casual conversation and making eye contact in a flirtatious manner should show him you are interested in him.

However, do not come across as crude or too available because this will only put him off completely.

Related article: How to flirt and make eye contact

girl with long hair

How to Keep a Virgo Man Interested

A Smart Appearance Always Catches The Attention of a Virgo Man

A Virgo guy is drawn to the clean and neat coordinated look of a partner and puts a strong value on appearance.

Steer well clear of untidy hairstyles and avoid lots of makeup which may lead him to think of you as brash.

Related article: Should I make the first move on a Virgo man?

Signs a Virgo Man is Serious About You

It is important not to try to pretend that you are someone other than who you really are.

A Virgo man is very perceptive and will quickly see through any deceptions.

When a Virgo man starts getting serious about you it will be easy to see by his change of attitude. Rather than being reserved, he will become more enquiring.

He may stroke your hair as he brushes past you, and also compliment you on the clothes you are wearing.

This slow burn is just his way of getting the information he needs about you before any commitment.

Feel flattered by the subtle changes as he gets to feel more comfortable around you.

Once you make it into his world you will find him to be reliable honest and straightforward.

However, this is something that he also expects you to be.

How to Make a Virgo Man Obsessed With You

A Virgo man born with this zodiac star sign has hidden desires within his complex characteristics.

To win a Virgo man’s love a woman needs to understand his one overriding obsession.

Relationship expert James Bauer has studied this desire in a man and explains in this short video Virgo man’s obsession.

The simple steps a woman needs to take to win and keep the heart of her Virgo love.

Avoid Coming Across as Needy

A Virgo man is not recognized as being the emotional type.

He tends to have an analytical outlook on current affairs and enjoys conversations with people having similar interests.

You don’t need to be a stuffy scholarly type but it would be a definite advantage if he could see you as an independent woman.

When dating a Virgo man you should have a solid foundation to lean on, but avoid displays of emotion that do not have a way of reaching a logical outcome.

See also: How to make a Virgo man miss you

Be Tidy and Organized

Typical of Virgo’s analytical character, he also thrives in a tidy environment.

A woman who is slapdash and untidy around the home or in the workplace will be a big turn-off for a Virgo guy.

Showing your man organizational skills, lets him know that you have a neat and tidy lifestyle.

If you offer him a lift in your car or invite him to your home for a meal, make sure things look as tidy as possible.

You can read my review of a manual by a leading relationship astrologer which takes you Inside The Mind of a Virgo Man.

Attract a Virgo Man By Being Supportive of His Views

woman smiling at a Virgo man who has his arms around herA Virgo man likes finding interest in topics around him.

Joining in with his train of thought should attract his focus and he will enjoy developing the conversation on the topic.

When dating a Virgo man you will learn he is not looking for perfection but wants stimulation, and is rarely domineering.

He will be looking for a person who can share his thoughts but will also respect someone who is independent and not clingy.

Related article: How to make yourself irresistible to a Virgo guy

Setting the Romantic Pace

What attracts a Virgo man above all else is allowing him to discover everything about you at his own pace.

He will want to know everything about you before even thinking about a permanent relationship.

In the early stages of courting, he will probably be testing you to make sure you are a fit for his world.

Remember he likes to set the pace with any relationship so don’t leap ahead and try to kiss him or show too much affection early on.

He will let you know when the time is right for that first magical kiss.

When he kisses you for the first time you will know he is very interested in having you in his life for the long haul.

If you keep in mind all the above points you will not go far wrong in learning how to attract a Virgo man and make him lust after you.

However, if he is still not coming forward to ask you out there is more information about the Virgo man characteristics contained in this manual Virgo Man Secrets which includes Sextrology.

Once a Virgo male makes up his mind that you are the one for him he will be a very loyal and attentive partner.

All the qualities he seeks in a mate he has within himself.

I hope you draw strength from the universe and find long-term happiness with your Virgo man.

My joy is in giving


Important Notice

This is something all women should know


Are you are starting to feel your guy is losing interest in you?

Or maybe, you have drifted apart due to a breakup?

The reason could lay in your not understanding a fundamental desire a man needs in a long-term relationship. 

The next few sentences could hold the key to your future relationship happiness.

There is one thing a man craves above all else, even more than sex.

Yet 90% of women don't even realize it even exists. 

It is the reason why relationships never get started or why couples just drift apart.

If you want to learn the secret of becoming the center of his world and being the only woman he truly desires, This Video explains the simple steps that can turn your dreams into reality.



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