Why Is Virgo Man Slow To Commit
If you have just started dating a Virgo guy, you may be a bit surprised that things are taking longer than you thought to warm up. You may be asking yourself why?
Or you may be worried that you are crowding him and don’t want to put him off you by being too keen. Read this article for tips that could be useful.
Virgo Man Is Known To Be A Slow Mover
It is a recognized trait in a Virgo male that they are slow to get to know people in general, let alone someone who may then be someone special, which will develop into a more intimate relationship. If things are moving slower than you would like you need to know ‘The One Thing’ that most men find attractive in a woman.
He will naturally want to take his time to assess the impact that you are going to make on his orderly lifestyle. This takes time and will require answers to multiple questions about you. He is not the type to ask out right, but will be storing up information to enable him to reach his decision.
Virgo men are hardworking, honorable and once sure of the way they want to go make excellent companions. They just want to make sure at the beginning that the relationship is worth the effort of cultivating into a lasting experience.
A Virgo man is very perceptive and always looking towards the future and wants to avoid any possibility of being hurt from a relationship.
He Will Give His Heart To The Woman Who Understands Him
Every Virgo man is different but they all have similar traits. Some require more time than others to adjust to changing situations, and it will depend on the personality of the woman he is getting to know.
Giving him space to make up his own mind is definitely preferable to trying to get him to commit to something he is not ready for.
In some rare occasions where star signs are known to be compatible, a Virgo man will be more forthcoming initially but as the relationship unfolds he will still need to confirm to himself that things are going in the right direction.
Getting to grips with his sometimes complex character is the key to building a long-term intimate relationship, and more help can be found here in my article Secrets Of A Virgo Man
The Sensitive Virgo Man
A Virgo guy has a very sensitive nature and can overreact to silly situations that others would take no notice of. If he feels that he has been offended in some way he may take time to get over it rather than have a blazing row to clear the air.
He will, however, remember what happened and when he is ready to raise the subject again. This can be a bit disconcerting for the other party who has already brushed it away. Try not to over react when he does this as it will only lead to resentment and you need to find harmony in the relationship.
In the initial stages of a relationship with a Virgo man, you may feel that one or two situations arise where you are treading carefully, but this is adjusting the boundaries. Because the relationship is new it is natural to feel that everything is about the two of you.
Because the Virgo guy is so conscientious he may well have work problems troubling him that he does not want to burden you with. Giving him space will encourage him to open up to you when he is ready.
The Virgo male is very independent and likes his own company and time to himself occasionally. This has nothing to do with getting fed up with his partner, it just full fills his inbuilt need to take stock and assure himself he is moving forward in the right way.
A clever woman will take a step back sometimes to allow this space which will bring benefits to both as Virgo man sees this as an advantage to an independent partner.
Spending short times apart falls nicely in with the saying ‘Absence makes the heart grow fonder’ which is particularly true with a Virgo man.
Having said that in most cases, he will only be looking for the occasional ‘boys night out’ because once he has made up his mind about his partner he will want to be with her for the majority of the time.
Getting to know your guy will come easily to you if you stand back and let him do the running, once you have made the first dates.
Related article: How to make a Virgo guy fall in love
Agreeing Time Apart
A Virgo man will want some time to himself but it is also very important that he sees it as part of the relationship that is a compromise and does not take advantage.
You need to see that he understands it is part of a routine involving both of you. Care should be taken in not making the arrangements too rigid that they then become boring.
See also: How a Virgo man shows affection
A Virgo man has a clear picture in his mind of who he is and where he is going. He can be sensitive and dwell on minor slights.
He is made out to be complex and complicated but understanding why is how to get him to commit to you in the long-term. It is no good assuming that he knows how you feel, he does not unless you tell him.
He actually appreciates a woman who will say what she means rather than beating around the bush and making him feel awkward that he was expected to know what she was thinking.
Virgo man is not one for mind games and needs to be told the truth of what you require from him. He may be holding back because of a long forgotten incident that is making him think that you don’t want a permanent relationship?
Hopefully, the above has helped but if you need to know more about getting him to love you, or how to drive him wild in bed, then read My Review which will give you the inside techniques that will make him have eyes for only you.